I am looking for NSA fun, but also looking for a lady/slut to worship for long term relationship who is perhaps into some fedom, cuckolding, etc.

I like a woman to cum before I do and thus have good orgasm control.

I am a professional and bit of a geek in nature, though I don't play computer/xbox/role-playing games, nor am I into sci-fi/fantasy, programming, etc.

I am into music (many genres, currently favour gothy neo-folk/dark folk, post industrial, psychedelic rock), and I am interested in religions and spiritualities.