So we received the message, normally it's us making first contact after a meet and with the timing she couldn't have even made it back home yet. It's a positive start! We all like to know where we sit after a meet right.. The fact she had messaged so quickly and sounded interested was perhaps her seeking our approval.. However from past experience we knew not to count your chickens before they hatch. We've been down this road many times..

After we got home our 3way chat starts lighting up again as it had done for the weeks leading up to this meet.. We carried on chatting into the night and began throwing in some flirt.. We were attracted to her but was she really attracted to us, just one of us or the fact there is an opportunity for an experience? It's always hard to know which. She did however start flirting back with both of us.

A few days passed and our chats still going crazy. From the moment we wake to the moment we sleep, we were messaging all day every day, we were all invested in it. Pretty eager to see her again and knowing she had weekend about with her kids, we asked if she would be interested in coming to stay at our place in two weeks time, to which she agreed!. Like always, we don't like anyone to feel pressured, so we put forward the idea that this is purely to hangout. After all we weren't just seeking sex and we were willing to prove that any way we could. She replied 'I don't sleep with anyone untill at least the third date anyway'. To us that was a perfect response, we could hang out and no one needs to feel uneasy. Swinging is all about consent.. Whereas dating is also but there is also some aspect of spontaneousness so it's not so structured.. We've all moved in for a kiss before without asking haven't we when we've dated? Knowing at this point there was attraction from our flirty chat we did ask.. 'if it feels right are we allowed to kiss you?'. 'Of course' she replied. So there it was, we set a boundary without trying too. But these were 2nd date boundaries.. We wanted to do this properly and our main focus was really to see how we get along in a more relaxed environment where we could have a few drinks and not worry about driving.

The chats continued daily. Good mornings, good nights and everything between.. The flirt intensified.. Then finally the day comes she is bound for our place, there's been a lot of excitement about getting to see each other again.. But with it comes self doubt.. Were we just having a good hair day that first meet? will she still find us attractive? Does she truly want to explore a relationship?

She arrives late afternoon, we greet her and invite her inside. Our house is setup pretty well for hosting on all levels.. We have a two storey place which has no internal access between floors.. All our main living is upstairs while downstairs we have a bar/lounge, toilet, bathroom and spare room.

We move into the bar area and open a drink.. Again straight into conversation like we are long standing friends, no awkward silence just pure flow. There's flirt, there's laughing there's connection 🙌.

We carried on drinking into the night, she knew we had a spa and we did tell her to bring swimwear, all feeling a little tipsy and the night getting away on us she asked if we could hop in the spa. We went upstairs to make sure the kids were in bed and got changed.. To get to our spa you need to go through the downstairs bathroom.. As we arrived back downstairs she was standing in the bathroom in her swimwear, she looked hot! Trying not to perv too much I lead her out to the spa where I removed the cover for the girls to jump in. I went back inside to grab us all some drinks and the UE Boom before joining.

We sat relaxing with some good tunes and looking at stars above, got into some deep life conversations.. Then there was a moment of silence.. The first ever.. It felt like we were all waiting for someone to kiss someone.. Without thinking I kissed her, then Mrs N moved in and kissed her too, then we threeway kissed... Then we all stopped and laughed.. The nervous first kiss was done, we cracked a few jokes and then conversation sparked up again this time with more kissing and a sense of relaxation about it. It started getting quite late and we decided to get out of the spa, we all showered downstairs separately then she invited us into the spare room with her.. We lay on the bed for a while and started kissing again, a little touching too.. but.. This was our 2nd date.. We had boundaries we were cautious of so decided after a while to retreat upstairs and let her sleep. There were a few messages between us as we went to bed, our usual good night messages but with an exciting, giddy vibe about them.

The next morning as we are still in bed our chat gets a message, she has asked we come snuggle with her downstairs, she is also still in bed.. We ask her to give us a moment while we make ourselves semi decent for 7am.

As we open up downstairs, we hear her say from the bedroom 'good morning'. We head in to her where she said she had an amazing sleep and lifted the covers for us to join her.. It doesn't take long before the kissing and touching starts again.. It's actually starting to get a bit heated and before you know it no one has any clothes on.. She said.. 'Now it's the next day, technically this is our third date' Mrs N agreed with her... We all laughed about that but then you could feel minds go to work.. Personally for me it still felt like date 2 and wanting to do this the right way.. I said 'no it's still date 2', it was her rule after all!!.. I said 'We need to wait for another date'. You have no idea how hard that was to say.. Am I even a male? 😅. I've got two hot naked women in bed basically giving consent to have a threesome and I've just told them no! WTAF. Just to make this part clear, there was no rejection here, no one felt rejected, there was laughing and joking going on through this whole moment. I basically convinced them it was still our second date and that we should wait a little longer..

We lay there naked for a bit, running our hands over each other before opting to get up, it was a stunning day outside.. We wanted to show her around the beach and our little neighborhood before she headed home.

We got dressed and walked the length of our beach, stopping for a selfie along the way. We love sunny days like this especially when we are showing off our area to new people, it's such a cool little spot you can appreciate more on days like this.. When we returned home from our walk we sat around talking some more before she packed and headed home. But not before a final kiss and tight cuddle goodbye.

She messaged us a few hours later to say she went straight home got her toy out and released an orgasm she had to get out of her system..

We started planning date 3 that very night..

To be continued...