We started swinging by accident years ago. I think a lot more people would do it, they just need that initial kickstart. It all started when we were very young and we had moved to Australia for work. My wife and I both worked for the same company but she worked in manufacturing and I worked about five kilometers away in R & D.

I was away for a couple of weeks on business in Adelaide. When I returned I found she had love bites on her neck so I questioned her. She confess that she had been fucked by a work colleague. I was young and did what society dictates so I resorted to that caveman principal of "it's my property and if you touch it I'll punch you on the nose. A few weeks later we had had a few drinks and were playing, truth, dare or promise and I confess to her that the thought of her being fucked by another person was a turn-on. She must have keep that thought in her head because a couple of weeks later we needed a baby sitter while we attended a wedding on a Saturday afternoon. We had a regular babies sitter but unfortunately they weren't available for that afternoon. They had mentioned in the past that their friends were swingers and they said that she was available for that afternoon and gave us their phone number. The arrangements were made. Apart from our conversation on the phone the first time we met them was when we dropped our son off on our way to the wedding. My wife was all dressed for the wedding. She was wearing heels and a short dress that showed off her cleavage. She had scrubbed up quite nicely and did look very fuckable. We spoke with Pete and Sharon for a while before leaving for the wedding. After the wedding I dropped my wife off back home to give her time to prepare dinner and went to pickup our son. When I knocked on the door I was greeted by Sharon, Pete was out. She corner me and said that all four of us should go out to dinner together and then after it go back to their place and play. I was stunned at your Brazen attitude. But several months later realised that you have to be proactive, if you wait around for things to arise you may wait forever. When I got home I mentioned it to my wife, she just looked at me and said "so when are we going to dinner" luckily I had kept their phone number and we made it a date.

Over dinner we all knew what we were there for. But that didn't stop my wife and I from being as nervous as hell. On the other hand Pete and Sharon were taking it all in their strike, like it is an everyday occurrence. We all laughed when Pete and Sharon told us about their first time and after that our nerve seem to go away a little bit. I did catch Sharon a few times looking over my way and knew what she was thinking, no doubt Pete was doing the same. We ended up back at their place all sitting in the lounge with a drink. The nerves came on again and I wondered who was gonna make the first move. It was a little bit like a plate of biscuits, everybody wants one but nobody wants to be the first. I didn't have to wonder for too long. Sharon slipped off the couch onto her knees in front of Pete and took his cock out and started sucking him off. She stopped and looked at us and said "why don't we all go to the bedroom where it's a little more comfortable." As soon as we got to the bedroom we paired up. Sharon was with me and Pete was with my wife. Sharon was Snogging me while taking my clothes off. I had a quick glimpse across at Pete and my wife. And they were well ahead of us. Obviously she was more eager than me because not only were they snogging wildly and Pete was taken her clothes off but she was also helping him out of his. By the time Sharon and I got to the bed Pete and my wife were already fully naked and she had his cock in her mouth. It was a real turn on watching a guy fuck my wife while his own wife was sucking my cock. Pete and Sharon had made our first experience very easy. You can never repeat your first time. It's full of nervousness, anticipation and excitement. Looking back I can see our first experience was rather mild. It was simply a wife swap, Our time with Pete and Sharon became more regular and more adventurous. There was numerous times when Pete and I would gang up on one of our wives, while the other one either watched or played with herself........ usually both. And it wasn't long before Pete introduced us to another couple and then a couple of singles.

Back then my wife had never been with another woman. That didn't happen until we returned to New Zealand. I wasn't there for it but she told me all about it. Once she had tasted pussy she was hooked.

It was a slow start in New Zealand. It was hard to find people that were after the same things as us. After a period of time you do develop your favorites. Sex is like food you do develop your favorites but they're not exclusive, your favorite may be steak but that doesn't mean you'll always eat only steak, sometimes you have a craving for fish and chips. Our favourite would be getting together with our swinging friends and doing something social and then all getting it on. Over the years we did build up a network of swinging friends. These are people that weren't friends that become swingers, they were swingers that became friends. You could say we are more like FWB. The second favourite thing to do was for her to pick up random strangers and be fucked by that stranger. Sometimes I was invited to join them and other times it was just the two of them. If it was up to my wife I would always be there but sometimes the guys just aren't into it.

Over the years we have tried just about everything, if we haven't tried it, it's probably only because we haven't heard of it before, so if you mention it, we'll probably try it. It's funny really because our least favourite thing to do at home has become our go-to when we're overseas. That is going to clubs. My wife says you're always guaranteed a fuck. She says it's really exciting being fucked by a random stranger, but says there's lots of notch collectors there. A notch collector is a guy that wants to fuck as many women as possible and she says he is there to only please one person and that's not her. She says the first four are exciting and then the novelty wears off. She says they fuck her and then simply move off to the next woman. She says to them you are just another notch in their belt. She calls it getting her K.F.C. ...... it's always very appetizing beforehand but it can leave you cold.

We have little code phrases. Sometimes she will say to me " I think I need KFC tonight" that means she wants to go out and be fucked by a random stranger. Sometimes they will go to a hotel and other times they will come here. If I get a text from her saying I'll be home soon make yourself scarce, I know to get out of the house. But if I receive a text saying I'll be home soon get the drinks ready......... I know that I am included and we're about to have a threesome. Being overseas is quite different to being at home. You really haven't got the time to correspond back and forth. So a club is the best option. At least your guaranteed a fuck, or in her case plenty of fucks. More than once we have been on holiday and I have watched guys hitting on her at the bar knowing that they're going to get the chance to fuck her.

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