Making love to your partner is intoxicating. Visually, sensually, audibly. You know what brings them to the edge and how to make them explode into spasms of ecstasy. Hot steamy sex, and a lot of it, makes for a fulfilling relationship.

Watching your partner pleasuring an attractive stranger adds spice to the mix. Two naked bodies, writhing in ecstasy, moaning, not holding back, savouring every caress, lick and thrust. That eroticism is magnified as you and their partner explore each other’s bodies, taste what’s on offer and build to a powerful climax.

Yes, lovemaking with your long-term partner is essential for a strong, loving relationship. But uninhibited sex with strangers adds an element of excitement that goes beyond the routine and keeps the love juices overflowing.

My partner and I have always had a high sex drive coupled with an insatiable desire to live life to the fullest. We were intimate within hours of first meeting, a chance encounter on holiday. The sex was hot and heavy. My oral skills brought her to a thundering orgasm and her unbridled athleticism stimulated my rock hard erection in ways I never knew existed. We’ve been together – and fucking constantly - ever since that first encounter.

The intensity and quality of our lovemaking hasn’t diminished over time. But the sheer excitement of a new lover is a powerful aphrodisiac. ‘Wife swapping’ always seemed like a sedate affair, contrived for bored married people. The reality is just the opposite. It’s highly charged. The anticipation is almost as much fun as the act itself. It’s slightly naughty…you don’t tell your neighbours or colleagues. It’s your secret.

And it is sustainable. Swinging is a life-time activity, provides a healthy outlet for pent-up sexual energy and adds spice to your relationship.

Our first full swap after hooking up was an awkward affair. We’d met a cute couple at a pub while on holiday. One thing led to another and we soon were in our room making out. Hands wandered, then mouths followed. We were nervous, then excited, then exhilarated. They were slightly embarrassed and we never saw them again. But we were totally charged.

From then on we’ve played with others whenever we could. When we lived in Auckland we were members of CKK. We could always count on an exciting night, watching, being watched, touching and getting off. And we learned that hot bodies are only one part of the equation. Enthusiasm and electricity magically transform an otherwise ‘normal’ couple into sexual superstars.

Queenstown is a highly-charged atmosphere. People come here to play hard, push their limits and live their dreams. That’s why we live here. And that’s why we like to have hot sex with attractive, alive and sensuous couples. Sure, not every ‘meet’ results in a naked bedroom romp. But when the stars align and the sexual tension builds the excitement is palpable. We all feel it. Our bodies pulsate. Our loins quiver. We’re ready for action. And the thrill is incredible for us all.