Swinger Party

Just seeing what others think I was recently approved to attend a party in July. I have since found out that I have been dropped by this couple from the party and profile blocked. I cant figure out what i have done to earn this. I have attended a party of theirs in the past with no problems I am a where of . I have also in the past paid a fee to attend a party and then found myself blocked and the couple disappear is is happening to many others??. It is also amusing that people who block you also continue to view your profile.

i get the blocking bit .I guess people check a profile and say thats not for us then block it so they dont go back . I guess later thier criteria changes and the go back for another and another lol. The pain for me os of someone views my profile i automatically check thiers but cant if the have blocked you lol. This happens even when i dont message them . Still i guess thats what comes with the terretory when your older and single .shit happens lol

I've blocked people based on their chat messages, comments on stories and forum posts.

If these lead me to feel the person is incompatible with my likes then I'm just saving everyone time. 🤷‍♀️

When I've blocked a profile, I can't go and have a look at theirs again unless I first unblock it. Unlikely, what would be the point?

Bit of an issue if you've paid to attend a party and subsequently find yourself booted from it.

Hosts are just people too, though, and some of them are dodgy, do your homework, and remember rule number one: don't be a dick 😉

This is a follow up on my original post. There is a particular couple who check my profile repeatedly yet thier profile is blocked. I cannot contact them to ask why as that would be considered harrassment. I have never chated to them in rooms or messaged them in fact had no contact whatsoever. Its not a problem but is puzzeling me. any have any thing to add?

Yeah… I believe that a profile which has blocked yours, can still view:visit your profile. Unless you return the block. I would assume that most of the profiles I have been blocked from… as those couples which block all single male profiles (or at least I HOPE that’s the case). Because I often don’t know I’m blocked, until I click on their profile after seeing them in my “viewed your profile” section. Then realise I’m blocked. Que sera sera.

That's not how it works for me.

I've just temporarily blocked an account and got this message when I then went to their profile:

Profile Unavailable

Sorry but this profile and webcam cannot be viewed by your account, please DO NOT ask sjjl71 or comment in the Chatroom as to why you have been blocked as this could be viewed as harassment and result in action being taken against your account.

There is a section on your activity feed showing people who have ever looked at your profile, just above the "Welcome back/ it'sgreat to see you" message. Even people you've subsequently blocked can appear in this, which is a flaw in the page imo.

Could it be that you're thinking of this section?

The Views section shows who's recently looked.

Just ignore it, or block them back and move on. Plenty of other swingers in the pool 😉

Yep… you are right Daisy. I did a bit of trial and error. When I specifically blocked someone, I couldn’t find their profile. However, I suppose when people block a whole group of people (say, single males) I believe they can still view the profiles they “group blocked”. I have a few couples that visit my profile, yet I cannot visit them because I’m blocked. Based on logic, I’m guessing that ALL single males are blocked and not just myself who was singled out. Makes me feel a little bit better.

Oh..: and I’m not blocking back. Just curious. I’d hate to know that I did something personally to a profile to have them block me.

Thanks Daisy i understand that but the couple i am refering to have revisited if you drill down on whos visited your profile it gives a date of the visit which was current. its no biggie like sjjl71 i am just wondering if at some stage i have upset them which is unlikely as i have had no contact .If its a blanket blocking of single guys thats fine but its still odd that the repeatedly visit when i have obviously been deemed not what they seek lol. just curious lol

Like Daisy has commented previously. We will block a profile based on something they may have said in Chat, or if we don't like what they have written in their profile blurb. We may have not have had any interaction with them directly, we just know that they are definitely not someone we would ever want to interact with. Single guys who have photos of their other "conquests " in their public photos where it is not obvious that they have that persons permission definitely get added to our blocked list automatically.