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Welcome to Newbies Anon!  

We’re looking to create a relaxed, friendly, welcoming and no pressure environment and space for people of all experience levels to come and socialize, while also having the space to play if so desired.  

We totally understand the thought of going to a party full of random people might be a little overwhelming – and that’s understandable!  But if you don’t try, you’ll never know, right?!  We’ve found through going to several parties ourselves that there’s a lot of really lovely and friendly people in the scene, and it’s actually less scary than you might be thinking!

New, newish, and experienced members are all welcome, and we welcome people of all sexual orientations.  In saying that, we have excluded single men as we have found their attendance at other parties has changed the dynamic considerably, and we will be (and already have) declined entry to couples or individuals where any person is over 45. We know this is different from other parties where if one person is under or on the limit then that's generally accepted, but we are doing this intentionally for the younger members especially so they feel more comfortable.

Please note:

·         There is no expectation or obligation in any way that by attending you’re expected to engage in any play at all!  It is an opportunity to get to know people, and if the vibe is right, and everyone involved is interested, then there are spaces available for you to explore things with other people if you wish to.  First and foremost, it is about having a great night, and perhaps an opportunity to push your comfort zone slightly if you want to!

·         The party is BYO alcohol – some soft drink and juice will be provided, along with snack food

·         Condoms and lube are provided.  There is an expectation that play with your partner is your business (for using protection), but penetrative sex MUST have a condom worn. Protected oral sex on men is recommended, but we leave that up to all involved to manage that situation as adults. 

·         Any vaping must be outside, and please be considerate of neighbours with noise levels.

The key to success in this community is respect, discretion, and consent (not necessarily in that order of importance!).  Anyone has the right to say NO to anyone else in an approach or action at any time, and this must be respected at all times. 

We will be on hand to answer any questions, or to be approached at any time with any query or concern (we won’t be playing, so should be available at all times) and we will deal with anything immediately if there is a need to.  While it is a party, we expect drink to be consumed in a responsible manner – anyone obviously intoxicated will be asked to leave.

Any questions, please feel free to ask!

The aim is to have enough numbers on here to allow people to register their interest as we acknowledge some people may want to register their interest before committing to the party -and that’s understandable! And, if you are unsure about your ability to make it on the night but are genuinely keen to try and attend (babysitter issues etc), please let us know so we can try and create a ‘reserve’ space if need be.  Please note that we are accepting up to the first 40 paid attendees, and then the party will be full and closed to further guests.  If you pay but find there is a reason you’re unable to make it (it happens!), we will genuinely try to fill your place with a reserve party, and if we can fill it, we will refund your entry - however if we can’t fill it, we reserve the right to retain payments made to cover costs.

Please send us a message with confirmation of your payment either on here (or if you are in contact with us in other ways) so we can keep an eye out for it, and if you can use your KS username as reference so we can keep track of who’s paid 😊The bank account number is: 38-9001-0112304-08

We look forward to seeing you all there, and the opportunity to mix and mingle and meet (and more?!) – we’re sure there will be fun in store (even if you haven’t tried before!). 

Thanks again

Your hosts Malcolm and Laura