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Welcome to Newbies Anon!  

*Update:  We are super excited to be able to announce that our party has now hit the “full” attendance number!  However, we know that things happen that mean some people won’t be able to attend (that’s life!).  Due to this, we will be increasing the party number to 50 on here but will be making it a “first paid, first guaranteed” spot for all up to a maximum of 40 people.  To avoid disappointment, we recommend doing this sooner rather than later as we have been pleasantly surprised with the interest shown already and expect more interest closer to the time!  We will be adding a list of paid attendees on the discussion page when these occur, and once this list hits 40 the party will be full, and no further invitations or payments will be able to be accepted.  Please send us a message with confirmation of your payment either on here or if we have your details elsewhere so we can keep an eye out for it, and if you can use your KS username as reference so we can keep track of who’s paid 😊Thanks! The bank account number is: 38-9001-0112304-08

We look forward to seeing you all there, and the opportunity to mix and mingle and meet (and more?!) – we’re sure there will be fun in store (even if you haven’t tried before!). 

Thanks again, your hosts Malcolm and Laura *

We’re looking to create a relaxed, friendly, welcoming and no pressure environment and space for people of all experience levels to come and socialize, while also having the space to play if so desired.  

We totally understand the thought of going to a party full of random people might be a little overwhelming – and that’s understandable, it was for us when we started too!  But if you don’t try, you’ll never know, right?!  We’ve found through going to several parties ourselves that there’s a lot of really lovely and friendly people in the scene, and it’s actually less scary than you might be thinking!

New, newish, and experienced members are all welcome, and we welcome people of all sexual orientations.  In saying that, we have excluded single men as we have found their attendance at other parties has changed the dynamic considerably,

Please note:

·         There is no expectation or obligation in any way that by attending you’re expected to engage in any play at all!  It is an opportunity to get to know people, and if the vibe is right, and everyone involved is interested, then there are spaces available for you to explore things with other people if you wish to.  First and foremost, it is about having a great night, and perhaps an opportunity to push your comfort zone slightly if you want to!

·         The party is BYO alcohol – some soft drink and juice will be provided, along with snack food

·         Condoms and lube are provided.  There is an expectation that play with your partner is your business (for using protection), but penetrative sex MUST have a condom worn. Protected oral sex on men is recommended, but we leave that up to all involved to manage that situation as adults. 

·         Any vaping must be outside, and please be considerate of neighbours with noise levels.

The key to success in this community is respect, discretion, and consent (not necessarily in that order of importance!).  Anyone has the right to say NO to anyone else in an approach or action at any time, and this must be respected at all times. 

We will be on hand to answer any questions, or to be approached at any time with any query or concern (we won’t be playing, so should be available at all times) and we will deal with anything immediately if there is a need to.  While it is a party, we expect drink to be consumed in a responsible manner – anyone obviously intoxicated will be asked to leave.

Any questions, please feel free to ask!