Welcome to the home of 45 Below Club – Tāmaki Makaurau’s established lifestyle party for 25 to 45 year olds!

We’ve been hosting parties since the heady early days of the early 2020s and we’d love to welcome you to one of our upcoming events.

Our parties are styled for people aged 25 to 45 years old, and have ranged in intensity from fun and quirky to sensual and romantic.

We promote a consent-first culture where you can safely discover your own desires, create lasting friendships and make your most adventurous dreams come true.

Please note, while we are sex positive and embrace all sexualities, our events are not kink-focussed.

Event dates will be listed here on Kiwi Swingers and also on our website

For Sunday events, Doors open at 4 pm, so we advise arriving early to relax and have a drink first. 

For Thursday events, start time is

If this is your first time, we'll take the time to show you around and introduce you to all that is on offer. Even if you're a regular, we remind everyone of the rules:

• RESPECT - always ask for permission and respect the answer you get.

• We expect a certain level of cleanliness and hygiene; we have shower facilities if you need them.

• Come dressed to impress. It's a formal dress code, no sneakers, jeans or t-shirts, please.

• We provide condoms, lube, towels and robes, but if you have a favourite brand, feel free to bring it along.

• Both members of the couple must be under 45. 

• All pre-defined "CCK code of conduct" rules apply to this event.

Read more on our FAQ here

Check the events page for our next party.