Hello. I am a straight male. Looking for people who are Clean. Adventurous. Non-judgmental. And people I can trust.

Currently I swing in Auckland but have had experience overseas as well.

The swinging life is not simply about sex. It is also about meeting new people and being open.

For parties I love to be generous and bring food, drinks and condoms for everyone. Even though I quit drinking.

For single women or girlfriends/wives I love to brings gifts and pamper.

The best outcome is we introduce each other to new people. Meeting new people that way is better than this website. It seems people on this site either KS to meet people. Or KS to KS and nothing else. I have been lead on by timewasters so have grown a thick skin to stay positive in the lifestyle. It can be great!

At this point there is 2 degrees with me and everyone in Auckland. People either know me or know somebody I know. And now it's getting that way around the country too.

Please no super hungry sexual messages. That is not who I want to chat to. Messages that are genuine about finding swinging connections are best.

I have turned down people before (not trying to slay the field) but I stay positive and optimistic in the lifestyle. It's just nice to meet people. And the majority of the time I love everyone I have met. But yes I have dodged some bullets.

Even my good friends in the lifestyle understand maintaining privacy. I dont need to know peoples last name, address or profession. That can remain a secret if we both wish.

I am comfortable with different mixes of people including parties with more males or more females. Keep in mind no men are getting anything sexual from me. If Bi-men are at an event they can enjoy each other without my judgement.

Send me a good message. And if we seem like a good match then we can have a drink! If you only want chatter about this lifestyle on KS then I understand.[removed by admin]

I am a non-smoker and double vaccinated.