Sweet is interested in finding a female partner to explore with. This will be her first time with another woman, she needs someone who will give her time to adjust, and someone who will make her feel at ease about her own sexuality. Sweet's partner needs to be kind, caring, strong enough to take the lead, able to listen to 'no', and able to make her feel safe. Sweet doesn't know how far she is willing to let another woman go with her, or how far she can go herself. Sweet wants Banana in the room, but  completely hands off; it's her fantasy to drive him completely crazy, knowing he's not allowed to join in. 

A  single lady would be great, but Banana would prefer a couple where the lady is able to play with Sweet without the other Mr in the room (her request). This is about creating a longer more open relationships with fewer play dates, so he wants it to be easy to bring other men in later, and feels that couples would facilitate this better.

We like to take it cautiously, If you are a couple and approach us, we'd love to go out for a drink, but with absolutely no commitments at first meet. you never
know, maybe if we've chatted for a while, got some expectations, etc; it might be different. We are new to the swinging scene. We'd be interested in another couple; attitude is more important to us than  looks at this stage to ease into this journey with. 4way, some soft mm  or ff stuff maybe as we are both decidedly straight, but open minded.

 No single guys. Well, you can say hi, but Mr Banana handles all communications in here, so you won't be getting a look in. IF WE WANT A GUY, we will contact you. We will only approach paying members, as well. Sorry to the genuine ones. From what I've learned here, most of them are cheating husbands, unreliable, untrustworthy, no shows. Even a lot of "bi curious" are just saying that to get into a couples' space.

• Banana is an Alpha and a Dom. He's not burliest guy in the room, but he usually has the most... presence. Other men tend to find him a little bit unsettling. Maybe that's just boys? Women are either instantly attracted to him or... not. If people take the time to get to know him, They usually grow to like him. He has the final say on the pace, space, and rules of engagement in the relationship, but it's always with her wants and needs in mind. He tends to bring his presence up to where it needs to be. You could say he rises to the occasion; but basically he only uses as much... assertiveness as he needs to. He's actually really sociable, and can seem quite scatterbrained, but holding any kind of conversation for any length of time with him may reveal his piercing intelligence and really, really bad sense of humour.

• Sweet is a gentle Sub who loves to be tied, restrained, and overpowered, as long as she feels safe and comfortable. when she's ready, she loves it as good as you can give it. She likes roleplay, and lives to please her Dom. Just now, she's not quite ready to try things out with anyone, not just yet. She hasn't quite figured out who she wants her first experience to be with.