Hi everyone, BBW here of European and Maori descent. 

I want to cut straight to the chase so we don't have to go back and forth in private messages covering the basics. If you don't acknowledge that you've read this when you message me, I won't reply.

1. I am a big girl. It's literally mentioned in my username - don't act surprised when we meet IRL and I'm big. 

2. I don't like rough sex or being choked/man-handled due to past trauma. 

3. According to my doctor I have a "low sitting cervix" and low pain tolerance. For that reason, I prefer to only have sex with small penises. Anything longer than 12cm when erect and 11cm when you wrap a measuring tape around the shaft is going to be too much for me. It's taken years of trial and error to get these specific numbers, so please respect it and don't try to pressure me into taking your bigger one with constant messages about how "I'll be gentle and go slow", "we just need lots of lube" etc. It isn't happening, I've tried all of that before. 

4. On first meet I prefer to host. I like to feel safe in my own environment with someone before venturing into theirs.

5. I don't do oral, giving or receiving unless in a longterm relationship, and I will never do anal. 

6. I have a male friend keen to play along if MFM threesome is your thing.

Other than that I'm keen to meet guys of all ages, builds, races, occupations etc. My only preference as mentioned above is a smaller penis size.

Also, guys, no need to be anxious if you're a premature ejaculator or if you're out of practice. Many people on these sites have been out of action for a while and send messages apologising for cumming fast even before turning up! 

Please, I don't care about that sort of thing, just some male contact would be nice no matter how short lived. If something like that is stopping you from getting in touch then please know I don't care about that sort of thing. 

*People getting shitty bc I haven't replied to decline your advances - I'm limited to 3 messages a day on the free plan. We don't all have the budget for a Gold membership. Take the initiative, if you see me online and I still haven't replied, I'm not likely to. I don't owe you anything.