I love sharing fantasies with women. Please share yours with me. I'm unpossessive, sensual, easy-going, and affectionate. My ideal woman is imaginative and passionate - even better if she's a bit sharp and selfish and knows how to get what she wants. I specially like oral sex to start with and partners who get stimulated by this.

I'm in an affair at the moment and see her on the weekends as a regular thing. We have special times we've put aside, She's just my ideal. She laughs and smiles a lot and and can be teasing. We boost each other up when me talk. When I get back home I'm elated but exhausted and in a strange state of mind not wanting to have much to do with other people. This must cool a bit surely in future I tell myself but don't really believe it. We have never had a real argument. I can't imagine her sour or unkind though she has a sharp sense of humour. Her tastes are different from mine. She doesn't read much and her main interest is in people and her friends, but she's very intelligent and speaks clearly and concisely and without ums and ahs. She's passionate and responsive and enthusiastic as a partner. Neither of us thinks about a permanent relationship. We both have other allegiances. She has that kind of confidence and lightness of touch about people mixed with passion and a bit of selfishness which I very much like and which means she sticks up for her own interests and gets what she wants.

What I am looking for:Travel, Picnics, Music Lover, Physical Fitness, Cottage Country, The Outdoors/Nature, Romantic Walks, I Am a Social Drinker

There are many other things I like that I didn't get the chance to tick on the list, I like conversation, novels, food (mostly Asian), movies (but I hate so many because of the terrible violence in them). I'm keen on travel and improving my knowledge of some other countries (I speak French and Mandarin). On the other hand I'm prejudiced against some countries where I've had a bad time or disagree with the government. I won't go to places which I disapprove of. I'm keen on nature and long bush walks to keep fit. If I had to chose one interest that's more important than all the others it would have to be women. Surely a huge number of men are the same? The other things fill up life but they're nothing much beside that.