Recently separated from a longterm relationship. Not looking for love but looking for friendship and sexy adventures with the right person

I'm pretty new to all this and just come out of an 8 year long relationship so I'm very nervous and completely out of my comfort zone so it's important I find the right person to enter back into the pool of intimacy so to speak 😊 

Personally I am more inclined to reply to those who have shown me a face picture first :)