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Firebutice
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 61
0 km · Northland

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I have another old saying Truckie, that "what comes round, goes round" and perhaps the said female doesn't know what she's really brought into until the honey moons over and reality sets in. That maybe the husband looks to be "golden" on the outside and she will find out that second best with someone else's left overs is not such a good idea after all. But hopefully you find peace, happiness and harmony in your life, because I know there are some beaut gems here.
Quote by AnJ" date="22/02/2015 9:08:56 am
Well it now seems that the truth hurts, my postings to the false couples profile wall and to the so called "single" male profile were wiped and now I have been blocked.
What consequences are there when it's the liars and cheats on here with their false information on profiles are able to act like innocent respondents?
I can't report them either as they have blocked me and what's even more unreal is, the "single male" husband has even blocked his wife on their older couples profile. In my view, she wont like me saying, but I think she has been humiliated long enough by these false profiles and there's not a thing we can do about it but add to this forum while they continue to be members.

You can still report a profile that you have been blocked from. If you go to contact us and then use the tech support option.
Please note though that proof of the profile being lying would ve required before anything could be done. Moderators cannot act on rumours.
Thank you for your informative reply and you will realise that I am infuriated by the couple who has manipulated the situation and my friend's husband who by the way has changed his profile to "separated", which is more the fact. Initially I had thought it was wrong when reading the false information in the first place and ultimately spoils what swing is about. I have seen these misbehaviours before and demeans the trust needed in these relationships. Someone needs to speak up and say it loud and clear, get rid of these couples, who make false profiles or misleading information and people who continue to get away with it.
I do understand your position and appreciate that but rumours remain rampant when someone doesn't speak up in the first place.. I posted publically my concerns because I know the facts and judging by their reactive response to wiping my postings off their walls fast and being blocked, speaks loudly enough.
Quote by truckieswife" date="22/02/2015 1:06:26 pm
Yes fire I totally agree with your post I have had this happen to me with my husband and woman on this site the lies are the hardest thing to deal with.
The other thing that's hard to deal with is everyone knew except me and only one person had the balls to say something to me bout what was going on.

Dear Truckieswife
There are the so called "swing couples" who perceive it to be marvellous in seeing marriages or others break up because they continue to say its not their business or their job to do it. But they don't mind you, playing the fool's mind eye and I bet there is a bunch of them who have blocked you too?
You are not to blame here, lets get that right! There seems to have been a very manipulative female in the profile you mentioned and I hope you get your justice for those liars and cheats on here.
It could be an overgeneralisation here but in my opinion and experience in receiving emails or information, there are many profiles on here with the intention of playing and cheating around on their partners, wives or friends. But what those misbehaviours do and in some ways, is spoil it for the genuine couples or singles who want honest and good play friendships, particularly if you are looking for safe, secure and discrete. We know it happens and as a recently single but experienced female swinger, I have always tried to be careful and sensitive when it comes to playing with couples in the past, particularly to the female of the couple. However there are those who in so called "swing etiquette" do NOT know where the fine line is drawn, milk it and cross it, eventually breaking up relationships and marriages. There is a huge difference between, "swing" and having an affair. I have heard and seen it said, experienced and done, couples look to enrich their lives and relationships, so search for friendship, fun and enjoyment but there are the FEW and rare people who just simply CANT be trusted and have to say there are some right here on site who have no consciousness or conviction. That's my thoughts, what are yours?
Well it now seems that the truth hurts, my postings to the false couples profile wall and to the so called "single" male profile were wiped and now I have been blocked. What consequences are there when it's the liars and cheats on here with their false information on profiles are able to act like innocent respondents? I can't report them either as they have blocked me and what's even more unreal is, the "single male" husband has even blocked his wife on their older couples profile. In my view, she wont like me saying, but I think she has been humiliated long enough by these false profiles and there's not a thing we can do about it but add to this forum while they continue to be members.
Have just discovered that the female of a couple profile has been having an affair with the husband of a good swinger friend here and broke their marriage up. The separated husband is now posing as "single" which he is clearly not yet. As I understand they have both lied on many occasion to the point where he would not admit what has happened. He says he plays with the said female as "a couple". On top of that I see numerous photos on the offending couples profile, including a video I can identify him and her at it. They have no consciousness or guiltiness especially to the feelings of "heartbroken" friend, that they make it hard for single female swingers when the couple profile and the husband's profile has false information and is totally out of order in my opinion. Given that this is sometimes a hard fact of life where sadly married couples do break up, I am appalled that false information on both profiles is allowed to be flaunted in the face of the estranged female whom the husband left for and all I can conclude to the matter is, I hope karma bites them both in the arse.