Hello there kiwiswinger, i am recently out of a polyamorous relationship that consumed way too much of my time and resources and failed to give back enough to keep me going, i am looking for fun non judgemental people to have fun with me, i am pretty guarded til i trust you and you will probably have to grow a spine and talk to me or indeed do other things to me first rather than the reverse, perhaps one day you may know why, or not, its not a particularly fun story.