Hello there.

Where I'm at

I'm an outgoing, genuine, and compassionate young professional, who is finally starting to get his feet under his real self in the world. I ended a long monogamous relationship about two months ago, and am trying to lean into the stereotypical energy of "man in his early-thirties becomes single and goes on a journey of self-discovery and improvement" - trying to grow in mind, body, and hell even spirit.

I have recently started an open relationship with someone who is very happy for me to swing and see other people, but is not always sexual, and doesn't want to play herself.

For the moment I'm keen to play without getting deep into anything (emotionally, that is) or attaching any strings that aren't wanted. On the other hand, I'm an absolute extrovert who loves meeting people and before anything happens I'd like to get coffee or go on some kind of date (not that I'm assuming any lasting connection that isn't wanted, but I do find it easier to fuck people I actually like).

A personal strength of mine is being able to put people at ease and make them feel comfortable. I'm a social chameleon and am very good at matching a vibe. I'm both very serious and thoughtful, and a deeply, deeply silly person and it's important to find people who match those energies.

I'm keen to catch up and play at some parties, and I'm on Fet with the same username.

What I like

Part of the reason I'm here is because I love to meet new people. I tend to think of meeting new people as exploring them; personality, brain, and body. There are so many lovely, sexy people in the world, and I would really like to explore you all the way down.

I am observant, methodical, and thorough in my explorations.

I'm a great fan of flavour. I love coffee, am not fussy about what my alcoholic beverages are so long as they're good, enjoy cooking and... eating out. Well, I do, but that wasn't what I meant to imply when I started the sentence.

I enjoy a random and eclectic assortment of music, from old rock, to world folk tunes, to late-90s pop, to Scots electronica, to classical. I don't know much about music, but I enjoy it.

I am absolutely a politics nerd - don't ask me about how the electoral system works unless you really want to know.

I absolutely adore women. I've dated tall women, short women, curvy women, thin women, hair colours across the spectrum - I don't really have a type, but when I see someone I know if I find them hot or not. I particularly love the ways women move or sound when you touch, or kiss, or move, just right.

I'm very interested in kink. I've dabbled, but haven't explored far. If it's your speed, I'm under the same profile name on Fet.

What next

I'm interested in seeing where this site takes me. Let me know if you like what you see.