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A question on how to get your partner into swinging is a question that has been asked many times. First, you need to take your time and discuss with your partner if swinging is something that you both wish to experience. Understanding the potential pitfalls and outcomes for you both is essential and only achieved by good honest communication between you both. If you've reached the stage where you are both looking at this site similar to this one then you are already well on your way.

What you should avoid:

• Beginning the journey without your partners knowledge

• Assuming they have the same desires that you have

• Getting upset/angry by a negative response to the idea

• Implying that you're bored in your relationship

• That as an individual it is something you need to experience

Even after you have raised the idea and you will have loads of fun planning the various ways you can turn it from fantasy to reality, always reinforce your feelings for your partner. Discuss different scenarios, this is how you can find out what things they might wish to experiment with. Take your time to ensure that the first experience is positive, and this might take a lot of work on your part, the right place, the right time and importantly the right other person.

Decide which is the best way for you to experiment without feeling pressured. This is where visiting CCK can be a great first step. Being with like-minded people that are open to behaving in a sexual manner in a safe and controlled environment often allows you to both understand the emotions and feelings that you will experience. You don't have to participate until you're ready. As you are already in a place where sexual activities are taking place many of the barriers are already down, suggest you both just start with having sex with each other only. Many visitors only ever have sex with their own partners and simply rely on the excitement of having sex in a safe public environment is sufficient for them. Of course, you can dive in headfirst and experience everything the world of swinging has to offer, only you and your partner will now which is the best way forward.

Make sure that whatever way you choose to begin you ensure that it is done at a pace that is comfortable and without pressure, a negative experience will happen at some stage but being prepared as a strong couple you can quickly eliminate these to minor irritations. PKeep on talking and re-enforcing your love and desire for each other.