First off: Hi!

Secondly: Nelson is a small town. I promise you 100% discretion, and I would really appreciate the same in return

Thirdly: Safety third. (I just kind of like that saying, but while we are here, emotional and physical safety are fundamental to me. If this isn't really a thing for you please understand that we ain't a good match)

Fourthly: we are getting a pretty good list going aren't we!

Fifthly: Everything else! I am a happy, respectful guy interested in meeting people who want to explore new stuff and develop new connections. I am in a very happy polyamorous long term relationship but am here, on this website, by myself currently. I am interested in meeting couples or singles and whilst I have a definite kinky side this is far from my only interest. I don't think I can do sex without any sort of connection so I would prefer to swap messages or meet to get a sense of who you are and whether there is any spark. I am really physically active and like to keep in good shape and I am attracted to people who do the same. I don't have a subscription so please message me first. 

Thanks for reading and good luck on your sexy quest!