im keen

lately i've had a good 3 people sound keen to meet, and then all of a sudden...ghost? What is going on I have stopped even holding my breath for anyone... It's very frustrating as I am real and actually keen to get out and have fun but more often than not the account gets deleted or people don't really have the decency to say no thanks. It's not that hard. I've had a few not and I just move on but very painful getting ready and then.... no more reply ugh how does everyone else feel about This?