Interesting happened to me too lol

Ergocog Its an interesting response . As someone of similar age I fully understand. However I am one of the guilty ones my profile is all dick pics mainly due to not wanting to get caught by anyone recognising me and mainly because as a chubby bald old guy my dick is my only redeeming feature lol. Sadly I cannot photograph my cheerful kind and considerate personality , my honesty , my sense of humour self depreciating as it is . I cannot photograph my desire to always please my sexual partners and consider myself a reasonably nice guy . In saying all that I have changed my mind and will likely change my profile after some really good replies from Daisy and others which have put my being on here into perspective. Attraction despite some opinions is mainly defined by looks I suppose the trick is finding a way get prospective sex partners to see beyond age body etc . I don't have much confidence in being able to do that lol. Still I showed some dick pics it could of been worse I could have had a user name like studmuffin, bigboy , or Adonis FFS . To any ladies I have offended please accept my heartfelt apologies.

Very erudite I am sure but maybe it's just with us old buggers our cocks are our only redeeming feature lol. And it shows we can still get it up lol. All joking aside I do get Daisy' point and fair enough she has a valid opinion . On sites like this you are always going to get dick pics some guys get off on showing and some of the user names that go with them amuse me things like well hung stud etc . Being older and single it's a pain people don't see past age and body image but that's the way life is everywhere so just deal with it lol. Honeys like Daisy are in position of power on here because we all think with our dicks and good on them it's the one area women are not only equal but hold the whip hand some literally. Lol

Wet and horny that is so helpful. I have messaged people thanking them for checking profile that goes someway to explaining the lack of response. It's hard enough being an older solo guy and it is disheartening when people don't reply . Maybe you can help with another thing I have two couples who regularly check my profile and I do find it difficult to believe that they are all in error . When I try to check their profile it's blocked . I am loathe to message them and ask as I don't want to risk a ban or seem like a stalker lol

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Fair enough I understand your point of view . I only posted to get a feel how people operate on here and got that . It helps relative newbies like myself navigate it without pissing people off after all we are all just looking for some fun . Wanting a bit of fun doesn't have a sell by date lol so I just hope others see that . Thanks for your honesty

I am still coming to grips with the whole process. I am always polite respectful and not pushy . It is my usual habit if my page shows someone has checked my profile i look at their profile. I have a couple of members who regularly check back on my profile yet when I try to check thiers it's blocked ?. It cannot be anything I have done as I have had no contact with them . It's a little unnerving. That coupled with people who don't respond to polite messages is odd. I prefer thanks but no thanks as I realised as a solo older guy I am not everyones cup of tea. I have had one response thanks but no thanks which was good but the same couple repeatedly look at my profile . I guess it comes with the KS membership lol. It's not a rant honest just a Little perplexed.

I. Think it's open until 11 every day from about 10am

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Having vouches on your profile as a SM is a definite bonus. We only play with Single guys, we are not really interested in couples yet we have on our profile for them not to contact us. We will always make the initial approach when a SM profile perks our interest and that is normally because a) they don't have any dick pics on public display and b) because they have at least one vouch.

Thanks for commenting understand your point of view . Lol my dick pics are my only redeeming feature. I don't have a vouch from my only meet so far but the lovely lady put a nice comment on my wall . I am realistic enough to know that not many couples will be interested in someone my age and without partner to interest them but I live in hope lol . I am confident I can hold a conversation and there is more to me than a cock but confidentiality is important to me. You have a great day .

Interesting comment . I guess being a single male on here limits chances particularly older ones . But I believe we still have something to offer couples looking for mmf . I haven't received any messages crapping on my day but it is a little irritating when you are ignored by couples seeking a single male lol . I would rather be told fuck off you old git at least you can move on with a laugh.

Mr White see your point

Point taken lol

I understand your point .and I guess you are inundated with messages being a single woman . I meant my comment as a general response which I agree is not suitable in some cases but generally I guess I am of a generation used to politeness. Thank you for your reply have a great day

Well done you .politeness cost nothing

I am interested in views regarding replying to messages. I believe in replying even if not interested it doesn't take much time to say thanks for your interest but it's not what we are looking for ! I guess if I was a hot woman or couple it would not be an issue lol . But older single guys I think deserve a reply even if it's fuck off lol

Nearest for you would be DVX Tauranga .

Going Tuesday lunch time to try it out

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Anyone experience DVX in new lynn? I’m guessing hit or miss?

Going Tuesday about lunch time to check it out

I would love to see All you guys down there would be spectacular lol

dxx has gloryhole booths. A larger room for group fun . Not a theatre like peaches in K road . Its a bot seedy and run down but it adds to the atmosphere lol

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anyone tried DVX in Tauranga???? Been tempted to go in but never seem to see anyone in the store or cars out the front.

I went last week . I am bi curious but only went as I was in the area. It's a bit dingy . I was only one in there . Movies crap . Small room with couch showing gay sex . Another room with plastic mattress on floor obviously for group sex. $10 to get in and they give you a condom lol. After a while heard someone moving around so moved into booth with gloryhole . Guy comes in and puts cock through . I am not curious anymore lol. Sucked him for a bit then put mine through the hole and he left never even got a payback . If I was passing I may go again for $10 if you get a blowjob it's worth it . I have heard couples go . I went to Peaches in K road to the theatre it's amazing but again only guys there at least I got to cum on a mouth lol

I went but only guys in there very open one guy was naked another couple sucking in 69 . I sat down and a guy sat next to me next thing he's sucking me off came to quick I was so shocked .my first bi experience in decades . I would go back but prefer couples or women

Has the group for this been removed? Can't find it in groups anymore . Hoping to go there tomorrow lunchtime

I am a single older guy and I agree . I believe in being upfront same with descriptions . I try to be as honest as o can I am not good looking I am an older guy with the scars and body life gave me but I can guarantee to be honest polite respectful and I know my way around a woman's body lol . It's hard for a older single guy to get meets but I am not going to resort to net pics of others and fairy stories about conquests .that's just shit

I am new to this and would love to find discreet locals to play with . It has drawbacks for me in that wife is unaware of my interest .(I am in sexless marriage). Another issue is age older single ! Guys have problems getting playdates . It doesn't help that I am no Brad Pitt . I am curious and really want to tick mfm of my bucket list . So any couples interested in a adventurous been there done that older guy look me up

I invested in a vibrating one and it's ok it is better when woman is riding cowgirl she can reach down to the base of your cock and pres the button which has different programs long short pulse slower faster . I tried wearing it on full to see if it would get me off but no Joy . Use lube to get it on and don't have it on to tight or long . I had a bruised cock because it was too tight