Hi there - I am a Wellingtonian, single, life-lovin (because in my world you only have one chance), attractive, professional and mature guy who is looking for single women and couples that are into wild, sensuous and sexy fun. I would now class myself as a silver fox verging on a Dad Bod but still in great shape for my age.

I am keen to find more friends to share my experiences of the best that life can provide.

I travel and enjoy it - and have been to many parts of the world. My work is varied and takes me around the country and although I live in Wellington I do spend a lot of time other parts of the country. 

I don't mind admitting to enjoying sport........but most of all indoor sports of the bedroom variety are the best fun of all. I am a swinger - and I have experienced many fun times, people and places. Yes, I have done CCK and Sparties.....no I have not done Club SE! But if you really want swingers clubs then you can't go past Berlin or Prague. Cuckold activities are fun too!

I am NOT looking for a relationship - its the last thing I want! This means I am not a stalker and not a lurker.....but if we meet, have fun and enjoy eachothers company, then I would prefer its not a one-off. Friendship beyond the bedroom is great as is the ability to chat, drink wine and laugh about life experiences.

I have photos to share - but I am not interested in picture-hunters - and I have a lot of experience in sniffing those type of people out - so don't waste your time. However, for genuine people who also have pics to share I am happy to show you mine. "Please share your private pictures" does not cut it with me......if you want pictures to add to your collection there are plenty of free porn sites around.

And if you are going to ask me for a face pic I will gladly provide one - but only on the understanding that it is reciprocal.
I value privacy, and expect and respect privacy that goes both ways.

I like:

* cruisy laid-back music, or anything from the '80s!;

* Prego (in Auckland), Juniper (in Wellington);

* Gin and Tonic;

* Pinot Noir - preferably from central Otago;

* Skiing, cricket, golf, rugby...need I go on?;

* mind-blowing sexual experiences;

* open-minded fun people with intelligence (if you think "yous" is a real word, I am not the one for you!)

I hate:

* hypocrites;

* self-indulgent people;

* selfish people.

So there you go - questions? Ask away.......