Kia ora, I'm Lion_Maiden.

Thanks for checking out my profile.

My focus area is Canterbury, especially in & around Christchurch, where I live.

My profile is a Novel, which I make no apologies for, & have been given lots of kudos about. If any of the description resonates with you feel free adapt to your own profile. My photos however are not to be shared without my express permission.

Update: 15th November 2025.

Since joining in February, I've been inundated with messages. So I vet all message sender profiles for compatibility before deciding to respond, or not. I make no apologies for being very selective, so make sure you have a well written profile & good quality pics, & you have read my profile description as it describes my personality, partner preferences, rules for engagement, etc. & will improve your chances of a positive response.

One way to increase your chances of chatting with me is by attending "The Body Shop" parties, or the "Christchurch Social Swingers" vanilla drinks events.

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN

• Your Dick pic profile image, (put it away)

• Under 30 y/o's, (too big of a generation gap)

• Profiles without info or photos, (boring)

• Cut & paste messages, (so unimaginative)

• Ingratiating flattery, esp. if I don't know you

• Being asked mundane personal questions.

• Those who smoke /vape (Eww Yuck 🤢)

• Out of date face & body pics, (keep it real).

• "Discrete" Adulterous sex, (NO!!)

I am NOT a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist a deceptive adulterer. Before I interact with an attached man I must have the express approval from their Wife/ GF/ Primary partner, with their expectations & rules of engagement when playing with their man.

If we message each other, please send a recent face pic, (well lit, front on, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat), to show me who I'm chatting with. I check ID's for a living so do not try to misrepresent yourself by sending pics of your younger self.

Be original, imaginative & polite. Don't use over-familiar flattery like "Hey Beautiful" or terms like Babe, Hun or Darling. Just use my alias Lion-Maiden.

Don't ask "What you up to?" "How are things?" "How was your...?" type questions. They are simple, but private questions about how I spend my personal time. Instead, state what piqued your interest about my profile, or introduce yourself using your stellar personality. Please use proper sentences with punctuation, & supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.

ME & MY PREFERENCES.

I'm a youthful petite single bi-curious 49 y/o Pakeha woman, (not girl), born & raised in Otautahi / Christchurch. While I have never been married & nor have kids, I am a family oriented Aunty to many.

My alias name relates to being born a Leo on the cusp of Virgo with nurturing lioness traits, my affinity with cats, my preference for Rock Music, & being an unmarried late 40's maiden. Hence "Lion-Maiden" is a play on words with "Iron Maiden".

My KS journey started after a relationship break up, & stems from a curiosity to explore my mid-life sexual awakening, & learning, discovering, developing & enjoying who I am, & who I am meant to be.

I am very cautious so have selectively growing a circle of sexy, supportive swinger friends, mainly through the local party scene, & a few independent meet ups. I prefer connections local to Christchurch & satellite towns, who I can easily meet & check compatibility with in person.

Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I am cautious with who I engage with. Understandably I have some barriers, that I wish to break down & overcome in time, through conversation, support, & empathetic intimacy. Hence I am very particular about who I share my time, body & sexual energy with. All interactions need to be held in a safe, caring, no-pressure environment where conversation comes first. However, I really do enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

I expect all play partners to divulge their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others, but are based on my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.

My prior experience has only really been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, though it includes many different nationalities men (flag count high). Hence I have lots to learn about the swinging & kink scenes, including what I enjoy. But while I am a novice, I am not totally naive.

Once I am relaxed, I am an intelligent, witty, self-assured, bratish tease. This more extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service, Admin & Security, including 2 years as a Corrections Officer.

I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious teasing banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to ample sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners with each other's personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner, and I will reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

As a single woman I am also searching for my " je ne sais quoi", - my ultimate person who I share mutual sparks of passionate energy with, who I can experience life, laughter & love with, & be so much more than friends who fuck.

In the meantime, I am comfortable with regular FWB's playmate(s) between 35 - 52 y/o, fit, fun, flirty, empathetic, confident & experienced in this lifestyle. They can be a man, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or lesbian woman, or a couple who are keen to regularly engage me as their "unicorn", to play, pleasure & help build my sassy Little Lioness alter-ego.

My ideal Play partner(s) would be pleasure dom or switch, who care for me as their strong willed muse, but will also match my energy, decided what is good for me, & challenge me to push & expand my boundaries without breaking my spirit.

• Confident, calm, & experienced

• Authentic, respectful, & caring.

• Communicative, encouraging,

• Supportive & Empathetic

• Fit, strong & energetic.

• Safe, hygienic, well presented, non-smoker,

• Sexy, flirty, yet self-deprecating.

• Intelligent, curious, imaginative, talented.

• Will lead or share a lusty power- exchange

• Be spontaneous & go with the flow.

I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being a brat, with appropriate restraint & punishment, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. I could also be a unicorn for couples &/ or cuckqueen for wives.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too, along with great communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun wholesome caring down to earth, no drama personality.

I don't wish to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island. I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as we all have lives outside of Swinging.

I can host once comfortable with the play-mate(s) & situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & space with good amenities.

Do you match these specs?! Can you prove it with a message that intrigues me, & is backed up by your profile photos, bio, kinks, etc... I always check before I choose whether to respond, or reject!!

Phew!! That's a lot of information to digest, so maybe copy & paste it to a separate document to print & refer to if you choose to message me.

Thank you for your time & attention.

Ciao, Lion-Maiden 😘

THE END.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own purposes or to other profiles, or personas.