Update August 2026:

Not seeking Single Men - Do Not message me.

I have met, matched & partnered up with an awesomely attentive man, & together we are fulfilling each others intimacy wants & needs.

Kia ora, I'm Lion_Maiden.

Thanks for clicking on my profile,

My Biography is for YOUR BENEFIT, & provides important info about my personality, play style, preferences, plus my location of focus, (in & around Christchurch).

I vet all profiles of message sender's before I decide to respond or not. Reading this description before messaging me will improve your chances of a response that is positive, especially if you also use proper sentences & punctuation. Those who fit my location, age & character preferences, & have a well written description with a range of good quality, up to date pics are preferred that highlight your personality, & not just your penis.

If we continue messaging, then please send a recent good quality face pic, (front on, well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat), to show me who I'm chatting with. I check ID's for a living so do not send me an old pic that misrepresents yourself now.

Be original, imaginative & polite.

I don't like "Hey Beautiful" or terms like Babe, Hun or Darling. Just use Lion-Maiden, or version of.

Don't ask "What you up to?" "How are things?" "How was your...?" type questions. They are simple, but private questions about how I spend my personal time.

Instead, state what piqued your interest about my profile, or introduce yourself with your stellar personality.

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN

• Profiles full of Dick pics (Is that all you have?)

• Old, Out of Date profile/pics, (Keep it current)

• Profiles lacking info, photos & effort (Boring!!)

• Under 30 y/o's, (Too big of a generation gap)

• Cut & paste messages, (So unimaginative)

• Ingratiating flattery, (Esp. if I don't know you)

• Being asked mundane questions, (Snore 💤)

• Those who smoke /vape (Eww Yuck!!! 🤢)

• "Discrete" Adulterous offers, (NO!! Fuck Off.)

I am NOT a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never discretely engage with an Adulterer. If I wish to interact with an attached man, I will seek the express approval of their Wife/ GF/ Primary partner beforehand, including their expectations for playing with their man.

ABOUT ME

I'm a small youthful 49 y/o single Pakeha woman, (not girl), born, raised & living in Otautahi / Christchurch. My alias relates to being a lioness Leo born on the cusp of the Virgo with her nurturing womanly traits, my affinity with cats, my preference for Rock Music. I am also an unmarried childless "Maiden", (or Spinster), in my late 40's, as sadly my relationships haven't been longer enough for the marriage & kids thing. I am, however, a family oriented Aunty to many. Hence I go by "Lion-Maiden".

My KS journey started in early 2025, & stems from a curiosity to explore my mid-life sexual awakening, & learning, discovering, developing & enjoying who I am, & who I am meant to be.

As a single middle aged woman I am very cautious about who I engage with, partly due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult. Understandably I have some barriers, that I wish to break down & overcome in time, through conversation, & supportive intimacy. Hence I am very particular about who I share my time, body & sexual energy with. All interactions need to be held in a safe, caring, no-pressure environment where conversation comes first. However, I really do enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

I expect all potential play partners to fully communicate their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so we can negotiate, & I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others or their kinks, but based on our connection, & my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.

My prior experience has mainly been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, but includes many different nationalities. So there is lots for me to learn about the kink & swinger scenes, including what I enjoy. Though while I am novice, I am not naive.

When relaxed, I am an intelligent, witty, self-assured, bratish tease. I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious teasing banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to ample sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners with each other's personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner, and I will reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

Most middle aged men & women on KS are married or coupled up & prefer to play with other couples. Hence I wish to find an awesome single man who is keen to build a regular FWB dynamic where we can pair up & explore the lifestyle together. Ideally they would be an experienced, empathetic, fit, fun & flirty gentleman between the ages 30 - 52 y/o, preferably a pleasure dom / switch who will match my energy, help me decide what is good for me, & challenge me to expand my boundaries without breaking my spirit. They will be thoughtful, charismatic, have great manners,

• Confident, calm, & communicative

• Authentic, respectful & encouraging

• Supportive & empathetic

• Fit, strong & energetic

• Safe, hygienic, well presented, non-smoker

• Sexy, flirty, & humorous

• Intelligent, imaginative & curious

• Willing to guide & be guided

• Be spontaneous & willing to go with the flow

I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being a brat, with appropriate restraint & punishment, & a range of dynamics, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. I could consider being a novice unicorn for couples &/ or cuckqueen for wives.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too. They must also be great communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun wholesome caring down to earth, no drama personality. I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as well because we all have lives outside of KS.

I can host once I am comfortable with the play-mate(s) & situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & space with good amenities.

Do you match these specs?! Can you prove it with a message that intrigues me, & is backed up by your profile photos, bio, kinks, etc... I always check before I choose whether to respond, or reject!!

I know that that's a lot of information for you to digest, so it maybe best to copy, paste, print & refer to if you choose to message me.

Thank you for your time & attention.

Ciao.

Lion-Maiden

THE END.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own purposes or to other profiles, or personas.