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Lion_Maiden
17 hours ago
Bi-curious Female, 49
0 km · Christchurch

About

Hi, I'm Lion_Maiden. Thanks for checking me out.

My profile clearly describes who I am, my preferences, rules for engagement, etc. Please read it carefully as I make NO APOLOGIES for being SUPER SELECTIVE.

Do Not Message Me

  • A Dick pic profile photo

  • Brand new or incomplete profile

  • Send cut & paste messages

  • Sends ingratiating flattery if I don't know you

  • Ask random benign personal questions

  • Under 30 y/o, guys or couples

  • Someone who smokes/vapes 🤢

  • Only provide Old face & body pics

  • Send Discrete requests for Adulterous sex

I will NOT be a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist a secretive adulterer. Before I interact with any attached Man I must have a conversation the Wife/GF/ Primary partner to get their express approval, play expectations & rules of engagement to play with their man.

I vet every profile of message senders before I decide to respond, or not. Profiles with quality pics & good descriptive information get my attention.

If we chat I'll expect a good quality recent face pic, to see who I'm messaging with (well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat). Do not misrepresent yourself by sending old pics of your much younger self, as I check ages on ID's for a living.

Be original, imaginative & polite. Don't use "Hey Beautiful" types of flattery, or use over-familiar terms like Babe, Hun or Darling to ingratiate yourself with me. Just use my alias.

Don't ask "What you up to?" "How are you?" "How was your...?" type questions unless I know you. They are simple but also private questions about how I spend my personal time. Instead state what piqued your interest in my profile, or introduce yourself using an intriguing aspect of your stellar personality. Please use proper sentences with punctuation, & supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.

ME & MY PREFERENCES.

I'm a youthful petite Bi-curious 49 y/o Pakeha woman (not girl), born & raised in Otautahi/Christchurch. Despite never being married or having kids, I am a family oriented Aunty to many.

My KS journey began recently, (Feb 2025), with a curiosity to explore & enjoy my mid-life sexual awakening, & slowly learn, discover & develop who I am meant to be. I've gradually been meeting, connecting, & growing a circle of sexy, supportive kink & swinger friends through organized parties & some more private adventures. I prefer connections from Christchurch & satellite towns, who I can meet, & potentially vibe with in person.

Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I am typically introverted, anxious & cautious until I am familiar with a situation. Understandably I have some barriers that I wish to slowly move beyond with understanding & supportive intimacy. Hence I will be very particular about who I share my time, energy & body with. All interactions need to be in a safe, caring, & no-pressure environment where good in-depth conversation comes first. However, I really do enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

I expect all play partners to divulge their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others, but are based on my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.

Once comfortable & relaxed, I'm intelligent, witty, self-deprecating, & a sassy flirty tease. This more extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service, Admin & Security, including 2 years as a Corrections Officer.

My prior experience has only really been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, though it includes many different nationalities men (flag count high). Hence I have lots to learn about the swinging & kink scenes, including what I enjoy. But while I am a novice, I am not totally naive.

Sexually, I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious teasing banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by ample amounts of affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners regarding each others personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner, and I will reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being a brat, restrained & appropriately punished MFM, FMF, FF, etc.

My ideal play-mate(s) would be between 35 - 55 y/o, fit, fun, flirty, empathetic & confidently experienced in this lifestyle. They can be a Man, Bi Woman, or partnered Couple who are keen to regularly engage me as their "unicorn", to play, pleasure & help build my sassy Little Lioness alter-ego.

As a single woman who has yet to find their ultimate person to live, laugh & love life with, I am also seeking a " je ne sais quoi" - a passionate, sensual, primal spark of reciprocated energy that potentially leads to much more than regular play.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too, along with great communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun wholesome caring down to earth no drama personality/nature.

I don't wish to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island. Hence I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as we all have lives beyond Kink & Swing too.

I can host once comfortable with the play situation & player(s). In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own purposes or to other profiles, or personas.

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Age: 30 - 56
Distance: 100 km

Interests

Adult parties
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B & D
Clubs and Parties
Cuckqueaning
Dogging
Erotic writing
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Masturbation
Oral sex
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Rimming
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Vouches

I had the privilege of sharing time with this stunning lady at the last Bodyshop party, and she is simply unforgettable. Conversation with her was effortless , teasing, sensual, and filled with that spark that keeps you drawn in. Her kisses… intoxicating, slow at first, then deep and passionate, the kind that make the world fall away. Play with her was nothing short of electric; a perfect mix of desire, connection, and pure temptation. She’s elegance wrapped in fire, and every moment left me craving more…😍