Kia ora, I'm Lion_Maiden.

Thanks for checking me out.

My Biography is for YOUR BENEFIT. It purposely contains lots of info to provide good insight into my personality, my play styles, rules of engagement, & my location preferences, (in & around Christchurch, where I live).

I vet all sender profiles for compatibility before I decide whether to respond, those with well written descriptions & a range of good quality up to date pics, (not just of your dick or fanny) are preferred. Plus reading my description before messaging me will likely improve your chances of a positive response especially if you use proper sentences with punctuation, & supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.

One way to increase your chances of meeting me is by attending the "Christchurch Social Swingers" meet & greet drinks events, & monthly "The Body Shop" parties,

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN

• Profiles just of Dick pics (Is that all you have?)

• Old, Out of Date profile/pics, (Keep it current)

• Profiles lacking info, photos & effort (Boring!!)

• Under 30 y/o's, (Too big of a generation gap)

• Cut & paste messages, (Unimaginative)

• Ingratiating flattery, (Esp. if I don't know you)

• Being asked mundane personal questions.

• Those who smoke /vape (Eww Yuck!!! 🤢)

• "Discrete" Adulterous sex, (NO!! Fuck Off)

I am NOT a substitute for your Wife or Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never discretely engage with an Adulterer. If I wish to interact with an attached man, I must get the express approval of their Wife/ GF/ Primary partner beforehand, including their expectations & rules of engagement for playing with their man.

If we continue message, please send a good recent face pic, (front on, well lit, smiling, no sunglasses, no hat), to show me who I'm chatting with. I check ID's for a living so do not try to misrepresent yourself by sending pics of your younger self.

Be original, imaginative & polite. Don't use over-familiar flattery like "Hey Beautiful" or terms like Babe, Hun or Darling. Just use my alias Lion-Maiden.

Don't ask "What you up to?" "How are things?" "How was your...?" type questions. They are simple, but private questions about how I spend my personal time. Instead, state what piqued your interest about my profile, or introduce yourself with your stellar personality. .

ME & MY PREFERENCES.

I'm a youthful petite single bi-curious 49 y/o Pakeha woman, (not girl), born, raised & living in Otautahi / Christchurch. I have never been married & nor had kids, but I am a family oriented Aunty to many.

My alias name relates to being born a Leo on the cusp of Virgo with nurturing lioness traits, my affinity with cats, my preference for Rock Music, & being an unmarried maiden, (aka a spinster), in my late 40's. Hence I chose "Lion-Maiden" being that it is a play on words with the Rock band "Iron Maiden".

My KS journey started after a relationship break up, & stems from a curiosity to explore my mid-life sexual awakening, & learning, discovering, developing & enjoying who I am, & who I am meant to be.

Being single woman I am very cautious about who I interact with, so I am growing a select circle of sexy supportive swinger friends, mainly through the local party scene, & a few meet ups. I prefer connections local to Christchurch & satellite towns, who I can easily meet & check if we're compatible in person.

Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I am cautious with who I engage with. Understandably I have some barriers, that I wish to break down & overcome in time, through conversation, support, & empathetic intimacy. Hence I am very particular about who I share my time, body & sexual energy with. All interactions need to be held in a safe, caring, no-pressure environment where conversation comes first. However, I really do enjoy meeting other people & learning about their experiences as I learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation & observation, potentially followed by inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

I expect all potential play partners to fully communicate their ideas & preferences for play beforehand so we can negotiate, & I can decide "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet". Such decisions are not in judgement of others or their kinks, but based on our connection, & my energy levels & readiness to physically commit & engage fully in the play.

My prior experience has only really been heterosexual 1 to 1 vanilla, though it includes many different nationalities men (flag count high). Hence I have lots to learn about the swinging & kink scenes, including what I enjoy. But while I am a novice, I am not totally naive.

Once I am relaxed, I am an intelligent, witty, self-assured, bratish tease. This more extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service, Admin & Security, including 2 years as a Corrections Officer.

I enjoy lots of fun flirtatious teasing banter to build a personal connection, before physically progressing to ample sensual foreplay & passionate sex, followed by affectionate aftercare. I personally like regular check ins & dynamic feedback during play, & I really enjoy intentional positive interactions through guiding, & being guided by play partners with each other's personal pleasure preferences. I enjoy being caressed, massaged, kissed, encouraged, pleasured & teased in a playful manner, and I will reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

As a single woman I am also searching for my " je ne sais quoi", - my ultimate person who I share mutual sparks of passionate energy with, who I can experience life, laughter & love with, & be so much more than friends who fuck.

In the meantime, I am comfortable with regular FWB's playmate(s) between 35 - 52 y/o, fit, fun, flirty, empathetic, confident & experienced in this lifestyle. They can be a man, bi-sexual, bi-curious, or lesbian woman, or a couple who are keen to regularly engage me as their "unicorn", to play, pleasure & help build my sassy Little Lioness alter-ego.

My ideal Play partner(s) would be pleasure dom or switch, who care for me as their strong willed muse, but will also match my energy, decided what is good for me, & challenge me to push & expand my boundaries without breaking my spirit.

• Confident, calm, & experienced

• Authentic, respectful, & caring.

• Communicative, encouraging,

• Supportive & Empathetic

• Fit, strong & energetic.

• Safe, hygienic, well presented, non-smoker,

• Sexy, flirty, yet self-deprecating.

• Intelligent, curious, imaginative, talented.

• Will lead or share a lusty power- exchange

• Be spontaneous & go with the flow.

I am keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, being a brat, with appropriate restraint & punishment, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. I could also be a unicorn for couples &/ or cuckqueen for wives.

I have a strong focus on Mental, Physical, Sexual & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. As such I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only play using appropriate protection for everyone's wellbeing. I like to look, feel, smell & taste nice too, & I expect this from play partners too, along with great communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun wholesome caring down to earth, no drama personality.

I don't wish to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island. I give & expect honesty, transparency & discretion, as we all have lives outside of Swinging.

I can host once comfortable with the play-mate(s) & situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & space with good amenities.

Do you match these specs?! Can you prove it with a message that intrigues me, & is backed up by your profile photos, bio, kinks, etc... I always check before I choose whether to respond, or reject!!

Phew!! That's a lot of information to digest, so maybe copy & paste it to a separate document to print & refer to if you choose to message me.

Thank you for your time & attention.

Ciao, Lion-Maiden 😘

THE END.

Disclaimer:

This Profile & Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & is my intellectual, visual & personal property posted on the KS app. As such, NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own purposes or to other profiles, or personas.