Hi Swingers, I'm Lion Maiden

Thanks for your interest. My detailed profile description provides lots of information about myself, why I joined, what I am looking for, my partner preferences, & rules for engagement, so please consider all of these before messaging me, to verify if you are compatible to my requirements, & if we would vibe in real life.

Also please note

• No unsolicited Dick Pics.

• Locals to Chch & surrounds preferred.

• Be Imaginative & Original with your messages

• Write proper sentences, with punctuation,

• And proof read before sending.

• Don't ask what I'm doing, or did today.

• That's private info, unless I know you well.

Maybe state what piqued your interest about my profile, or introduce yourself using an intriguing aspect of your stellar personality. And supply an alternative contact if you're on the free service.

I vet all profiles for recent photos, & a relevant detailed description, before I decide whether or not to respond. If your profile & pics are interesting, then I will like & follow you. And if we have a conversation, I will ask to share CURRENT face pics. Don't sent old pics of your younger self, as I check IDs & ages for a living.

• Don't send "Discrete" requests.

I am NOT a Substitute for your Wife, Girlfriend, nor am I a Cougar, Milf, Mistress!! I will never knowingly assist anyone to be a Secretive Adulterer. Before deciding whether to interact with any attached Man, I expect to have a conversation with their WIFE/GF/ PRIMARY PARTNER, to get their approval, expectations & rules for engagement. I WILL NOT TAKE PART IN ANY DISCRETE ADULTEROUS PLAY.

ABOUT ME / MY PREFERENCES.

I'm a single 48 y/o, friendly fun-sized, independent introverted, unmarried, kid-free, Pakeha Kiwi Cantabrian woman, with an eventful back story.

I'm new to the scene, & I'm here to discover & live my mid-life sexual awakening. I want to learn, participate, discover & develop who I am by meeting, connecting, & growing a close circle of sexy like-minded supportive kink & swinger friends, & gradually expand & explore my wants & desires, & engage in a range of social activities & sexy adventures. Connects from Christchurch & satellite towns preferred, who I can easily meet, & hopefully vibe with in person.

Being predominantly introvert, I may be reserved, cautious, & self-conscious until I am familiar with people, & the situation. Hence, I prefer smaller group interactions in relaxed, low-key, no-pressure settings, enjoying good company having cool conversations & warm playful interactions, rather than large crowds & full on party scenes, (unless I am well supported by trusted friends.)

Once comfortable, & the atmosphere is right, I'm often witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating, sassy flirty tease. This extroverted persona comes from years of professional frontline roles in Hospo, Customer Service & Security, including 2 years "doing time" as a Frontline Corrections Officer across the 3 Canterbury Prisons. It's where I learnt loads about myself, and some kinky toy & play skills too. 👮🏽‍♀️🔐⛓️.

My ideal connections should be fun, fit, flirty, experienced yet empathetic & caring YOUNGER SINGLE MEN, BI-WOMEN, COUPLES, (& potentially MID-AGED SILVER FOXES), aged between 30 - 55, who would like to play & pleasure a pussy-cat, who would like to build up her sassy strong-willed Lioness alter-ego.

My prior experience has only been 1 on 1 heterosexual vanilla, (though it includes many international flags), so I have lots to learn about the swinger & kink scenes, & what I enjoy. And while I am somewhat vulnerable as a single middle aged women, it doesn't mean that I am totally naive.

Due to some sexualized attention when young, & some undesirable experiences as an adult, I have some barriers, but I want to slowly drop my defenses to enjoy healthy sexual intimacy. As such I will be very particular who I share my time, energy & body with, & I expect all play partners to divulge their ideas, intentions, preferences for play, so I can decide whether I say "Yes please" , "No thanks" or "Not yet ". Such decisions won't be in judgement of others, but will be based on my energy & readiness to engage fully. I do, however, enjoy learning about others and their experiences, & learn best by engaging in emotionally intelligent conversation, followed by observation & potentially inquisitive interaction to stretch my boundaries.

Sexually, I enjoy time & energy focused on fun flirtatious foreplay & banter to build a connection before progressing to passionate sensual sex, & then awesome affectionate aftercare. I like to have check ins & dynamic feedback with each other during play, & I really enjoy the extra learning & intentional connection involved with guiding, & being guided by play partners regarding personal pleasure preferences. Currently, I love being caressed, massaged, kissed, guided, encouraged, teased &, (at times), punished in a playful manner. I am also keen to explore light to moderate B&D kinks, shabari, role playing, MFM, FMF, FF, etc. However with some stuff, I will only reciprocate when I am comfortable & you have gained my trust.

I am ultimately seeking a " je ne sais quoi" - a spark of reciprocated energy that leads to passionate, sensual, or primal encounters with my play-mates.

I have a strong focus on Physical, Sexual, Social, Mental & Emotional Health & Wellbeing. I am clean, hygienic, regularly tested, fully vaccinated, drug, smoke & vape free, & only interact with the use of appropriate protection(s) for everyone's wellbeing. I also like to look, feel, taste, & smell nice, & not intoxicated too. Potential play partners must also be clean, hygienic, smell great, be drug, smoke & vape free, with good communication, manners & timekeeping skills, & a fun, down to earth, no drama personality. I don't want to be a cast member of a Soap Opera, or contestant on Love Island.

I give, & will expect discretion, as we all have public & private lives outside of KS too.

I can host once comfortable with the situation. In the meantime offer me clean, private, safe, comfortable & well appointed space with good amenities.

Disclaimer:

This Biography, including Photos & Personal Information is a true representation of me, by me, & are my intellectual, visual & personal property that I have shared via the KS app only. As such NO-ONE has the right to copy, paste, manipulate, use, repost any of my personal profile information, photos, or video media for their own or other profiles, purposes or persona.