Ok here's the situation. Am a male, still in a relationship and prefer to stay that way but it's not a sexual one. So I play away. Not openly, but discretely so it is not in her face.

Why? Because male menopause doesn't really happen. Or if it does its a long time after that of some women. Could buy it, but am cursed by the fact I gain most of my pleasure from the pleasure I can give. Just love giving oral. Just love to put the lady's needs first.

Not a ripped 30 year old. Am still quite muscular and do go to the gym but cant pretend good living means I,m ripped.

Have not tried mmf or bi. Think I would be totally fine with the former, same room or whatever.

The second one, well got to admit there's a hint of curiosity there. Could not go down that track MM but just maybe MMF, right circumstances, right company? Yeah, maybe.

So am interested in playing anywhere in Canterbury. Am clean, discreet, extremely polite. In fact would call myself a gentleman, despite what I'm after here.

Honest as I can be - that's me - Avonhead ChCh. Contact me. Not paid up here so I can't initiate contact - can only send friend requests and have to a very few I think are compatible. If you see same and can contact please do so or make me a friend and I'll add email address.