Very happily married ENM couple (38F bi and 40M straight.) Like so many, we have started exploring together. It’s been fun and we are figuring out our boundaries.

Predictably, we would love to find a unicorn. If you are one, we understand how special an individual you are. We appreciate that you’ll be flooded with messages, sometimes demanding and entitled. Hopefully, that’s not us.

We would be grateful for the opportunity to provide you with experiences and a relationship tailored around what YOU’RE looking for. We already have each other. Your wishes are what’s important, and we would be stoked to make some come true.

About us as people: frankly, we are more interested in going to the movies rather than the gym. We are loving parents and we have bodies that you would expect in that regard, flaws and all. We love all shapes and sizes.

The kid also means that a bit of planning goes into the logistics of a night out so meeting up requires a little bit of notice most of the time.

Finding people interested in CCK would also be awesome. Groups, parties, couples that are ok with soft swapping only could be great, too.

At this stage we are happy for the partners to watch while the ladies have a great time, or for me to watch while you have fun with my husband, or I’ll join too!

Discretion is paramount for work. Happy to share photos when matched, though.

Toitū Te Tiriti.

Free Palestine.

Love vaccines.

Intersectional feminism.

See yourself out if that’s not your vibe.