Update:  07:07:19.  Somewhat overdue, sorry for the tardiness haha.

So after my last update I received quite a few positive and affirming messages.  It was touching and proved there are some genuine lovely people out there in the swinging and kink community, who actually read profiles haha.  Thanks guys, big hugs.  Reaching out to someone you don’t even know with nice words and heartfelt messages, I appreciate you all taking the time ?

Also in that time I’ve met some more great people in our small community.  Some socially, and some more intimately.  Collectively encompassing quite the array of deviant desires, kinky kooks, and fun fetish’s.  It’s been a blast!

Well I don’t want to write a novel, so I’ll sign off for this update by saying remember to have fun people.  I’m here for serious sex, not for sex to be serious.  Don’t over complicate it, have fun with it!

Update:  05:09:18.  I’m a little disheartened at the moment.  The world of swinging is very hard as a single male, and you need either a thick skin, or just be a total sleaze idiot to stick with it.  I’m certainly not the latter, but my skin isn’t made of armour either.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve met some nice people from ks, and I’m sure most on here are lovely people, but on the whole they neglect us poor genuine guys and show us no respect.  I get why to an extent, I joined ks and pay the money because I was over getting sooo many messages from desperate guys myself on other media.  Especially when I stipulated no single males in my profile, so I fully understand the inarticulate, rude and unwelcome messages that couples get sent by guys.

I don’t send those crap messages.  I at least try and put a little effort in when contacting someone new.

I highly appreciate the kind responses of declination from those that see fit to respond with a no.  But those that just ignore is actually quite hurtful.  I’m pretty sure those that I have messaged should be able to tell by the message content, and my profile, that I’m not one of those asshat males, and am actually a genuine swinger.  Is it so hard to reply with “thanks, but no thanks”?  I even reply to the asshats!  If they keep going then I’ll ignore them.

Sorry for the rant, and yes a realise this probably doesn’t help my cause, but maybe one or two will read it and think “why can’t we be friendly with guys?” and make the swinging world a better place ???

PS:  I search using filters.  A lot of you need to change your profile and remove the males from your options if you’re not interested in single males.  Quite a few profiles show up in the search, and when you read them it says no single males.  I can read, some of those other fuckers can’t lol.

Update:    I went to CCK for my first time ever yesterday.  It was Hotwives function.  I was pretty nervous being a first timer, and a single.  At the last minute I tried asking two girls (separately) to come with me to help with my nerves.  One I know well and intimately, the other was a pretty girl on here (not that the other girl wasn’t pretty haha) but to no avail.

So I arrived alone, an hour late thinking no one would be on time, but I was wrong.  So it took me a while to get into the swing (pun not intended) of things, but once I did it was actually really fun!  The atmosphere was good, it was safe, the music was good, and people seemed really respectful.

I don’t know what I was expecting really, but I needn’t have been nervous.  I highly recommend it to couples, and even single ladies.  Gentlemen, if you’re genuine and get booked in, keep up the standards I saw.

Anyway, read my bio below ???

About 2 years ago I realised I was I was sick of the mundane, over the complications of serious relationships, and bored with the single life.  a bit of a conundrum really.

But luckily a beautiful young lady came along and introduced me to new world.  A world of kink, debauchery, and freedom hehe.

So from experimenting with her, and others during that time, and since, I’ve come to the conclusion that my favourite thing is MFM.  Single naughty girlies right there too though lol.

Groups and parties do interest me, but it’s hard to get an invite as a single guy.  I have been to a couple of group events.

So that’s the abbreviated version of my interests here, and my recent personal sexual revolution haha.

Love to hear from ya soon.

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