Male seeking a male friend with benefits. My lady has lost her sex drive, which means I'm not getting much sex nowdays other than taking myself in hand (masturbation).

Masturbating by myself has become boring so to excite life up I would like to find a friend who is in the same situation to experience hands on fun with.

Once the friendship is established and we are familiar and comfortable with each other I envisage that hands on will lead to oral pleasure.

I am a novice with guy on guy so I am a little nervous even though I have been touched up by a guy during threesome swinging involving my girlfriend. I did not respond to him as the goal was to watch my girlfriend reach orgasm with another guy. She was amused at my predicament.

I am mild mannered, respectful, always smiling. My hobby is photography and my interest is wine appreciation. I have play a lot of sport in the past.

I am self employed and work from home as does my girlfriend partner.

The photos in my private folder is my visual vision rather than actual experience.

The guy I would like as a friend will be around the same age, body type and residing in Auckland City.

As my girlfriend (partner) will be aware of my activity (she is supportive of my situation), I prefer a friend who is in an open realationship or can be open to his wife/partner as I don't want to have to sneak around.