I’m here looking for occasional company and occasional friends with benefits. Female friends tell me I’m a ‘nice guy’ who is kind and a good listener. I’m the kind of lover who listens to what you want and doesn’t think it’s all about me. I have a sense of humour. I find the human condition funny at times and like to laugh at myself (so helps if you can laugh too). I travel a bit with work but not as much as I used to so that sometimes helps me to play.

So the picture thing. I hate photos of me but I also do public work. if we connect and you need a picture then I can let you have one (though I think I look better when I’m moving). I also don’t think a photo of you matters. If we chat and like each other that’s great and if we don’t then what difference would a photo have made? I also live in a small town and think I should keep your identify and my identity to myself (certainly not splashed around a website). I also think D-pics should be by permission and not the first thing that hits you in a profile (but if you want please ask).