Geeky. Burner. Polymath.  Lifetime member of Hell's Mensans.  Transplant from San Francisco.

I've been out of the scene for a while, and am completely new to it in New Zealand. I'm hoping for a warm and wet welcome. ;)

My play time is constrained by my child care responsibilities, but I'm eager to cram as much spice into my free weeks as I can.

I tend to lean more sensual than kink, but I'm open to exploration. Help me find my edges?

I can be dominant in the bedroom, but my flirting game is a bit rusty and I find myself feeling a bit too shy to send intro messages to even the most delightful of profiles.

I have a partner in Auckland (Unpunctuated), and we are enthusiastically available to play together with couples, singles, and at parties. We also play solo, and I'd love to build more single and couple play connections around Whitby/Porirua. I'm able to host, but only after a coffee meet or two.

As my partner is very rarely in town, I'd like to find some like minded party pals with whom to go to parties. Even better if we have chemistry, but not necessary if we find we make better friends than playmates.

Parties are fun, but I prefer building lasting connections/friendships and I'm not really interested in one-offs.

Condoms required. Regularly tested, and I keep my most recent results on my phone. I am vaxxed against HepA, HepB, HPV, and COVID. On PrEP. Better living through chemistry!