Although me (the male) is ready to experience new people,she already has a fuck buddy and although she encourages me, is not yet willing to you this might change depending on the have been together for 20 years and although comfortable in our lives realise we need some she had a willing workmate Who I encouraged but it isn't the same for me as you don't fuck your not to say theres anything wrong with them simply it aint ofcourse after being out of circulation for this long its not easy to find people who are simply after a"good" time no strings attached.

We both normal no real vices up for most things and reasonably comfortable financially.

Prefer to meet away from home (Palmerston North) as less likely to be recognised by people we fine food wine and conversation,but not into bullshit