Hi :)

Have you not really gotten what you need from your D/s experience?

Has it perhaps tended a little too physical, and not really activated new perspectives on who (and what) you are in your centre? Has it included calling out to your sneaky, internal playmates and then observing your own thoughts and visceral responses?

Do you feel satisfyingly changed?

Or are you my next Eliza Doolittle?

I am an experienced Dom, extracting shocked looks and gasps as my girl comes to a realisation about herself. I'm generally a soft Dom (with my principal device being your own voice) but I do enjoy rough play and breath play, including a nice pinch of the sadistic. I will work these into our time, along with targeted comfort (I'll expect to have you laughing and wailing together 🏆).

FYI I don't do suspension or shibari - it's pretty, but it just doesn't float my boat high enough.

I melt for long, sunny days in the domain, dozing in the dappled shade, listening to the breeze and the birds, then becoming sprinting besties with a random cavoodle. I treasure open, genuinely fun and excited chats (hence also: sunrise over sunset).

I have a deep distaste for undue entitlement, heartless duplicity, willful ignorance, bad manners, and poor hygiene (clearly not in order of importance).

In case you're wondering, I'll get my own enjoyment either from the nice range of gentle to kink that we'll enjoy together, or from being so deeply present with you in thought that our paths are forever entangled at each special moment. For that, I'll need, and demand, confrontingly raw communication from you; I'll have no patience for avoidant silliness, bratty lip, nor any other counter-productive distraction from vulnerable honesty and progress (although, a little brattiness is lovely to beat out, from time to time 🫠).

So c'mon - hit me up for a chat, and let's see about opening your toy chest.

All photos are from 2024.

H 173, L 16, G 16