Kia ora folks, I'm a polyamorous, feminist, musician, counselor, and father.

I'm looking for respectful connections with sexuality, passion and fun!

I'm all about consent, respect, care and feminism and within that context I can happily be Dom. However I'm very happy to switch to the desires of the person I'm with. Pain and humiliation are not part of sexuality for me, I'm more in to the joy, honour and celebration side of things...

Due to kids I'm more suited to casual, but prefer even brief connections to have emotional depth and presence. Also open to regular dating and relationships in a polyam context.