I have a lovely partner. We’ve been trying ENM and had a foursome, which was probably jumping in the deep end a bit, and ended up being a 3some when my partner tapped out - she was adamant that I keep going though.  Since then there have been other lovers for me that my partner has met (females). There has been guys as well, which she is totally fine about and quite turned on by. But overall she recognises that she likes monogamy, but gets that that’s not how I am wired. So the chat we had was that guys are still fine, but that me finding a couple to play with was a better prospect than finding a woman to play with.  So that’s the current plan, she is fine with me seeking out a couple very transparently and playing and then checking back in to see if that , yes I’m genuinely keen and would love the chance to meet up and ultimately play with a couple.

Rob x