Hi everyone, I'm Tilly! I'm happily married in an open relationship to a wonderful man of 12 years. I'm hoping to meet some interesting guys/couples for regular FWB hookups. I'm excited to be here and looking forward to getting to know some of you.

[b]What you need to know about me:[/b]

As blunt as it sounds I'll begin by saying that it's unlikely that Ill be interested in taking things further with you unless I regard you as my intellectual superior or equal. A lot of people believe the mind is the biggest and most important sexual organ. For me this is absolute fact. having someone keep up with the mind of another with a good game of mental cat and mouse is an incredible turn on for me. It might sound like hard work but trust me, f*** my mind in this way and you'll be totally unaware that foreplay has already occurred. Take SM for example. SM is about dominance and submissiveness. I'm not necessarily turned on by the physical side of SM, although I do enjoy that too sometimes. For me SM needs to be more about mental dominance and submissiveness. Want to attract me, please don't begin with one liners or automatic messaging or send me friend requests before we've even talked...you won't stand a chance in hell. catch up with my mind and then put me to halt and I promise to take you to new sexual heights. Basically, traditional "chase", except there's no physical chasing going on. Non-intuitive people are probably oblivious to what I'm talking about. But that's ok with me, we were probably never going to get it on anyway :)