Looking for a bull to keep my cuckold partner and I happy 😈

A little about me:

I'm in my mid 40's and 164cm (5"4) tall, an athletic NZ size 8, bra size 10C. Medium length light brownish hair, green eyes.
Professional, discreet and intelligent with a casual style. I enjoy most sports and keeping active and fit.

While I am a reasonably outgoing person I am not a full on extrovert, as I also need time to myself. My work and home life has me in charge the vast majority of the time, which means I like to let go of some of that control in the bedroom. I enjoy being with a man who can take charge both mentally and physically and allow me to just enjoy my sexuality.
I love to please and get a kick out of making who I'm with want me badly. I enjoy being watched and am in no way shy when it comes to sex.

What I find attractive
I find intelligence and the ability to communicate hot, if you are ridiculously hot, big cock or not, if you can't have a decent conversation or think you are too hot to need too, I'm probably not going to be attracted to you.
If you are taller than me, well built, naturally dominant and enjoy a bit of spanking, hair pulling, restraint that definitely gets me going.
I've been in the ENM/Swinging space for a bit so not a newbie.

I've recently discovered that the hotwife role really does it for me as it allows me to please my partner, while also getting to have more sex and hits my slight exhibitionist tendencies.