Those with intelligence who can hold an educated conversation get my attention! If you're into smut talk, move along right now because I have just lost interest in you!! Cock/pussy pics are a total fucking turn off!! It's not that I'm a prude but, how is initiating a conversation with your ugly bits on my screen meant to ignite my interest! I mean seriously...does no one have any decency these days! And yes, that does mean any requests for pictures will be IGNORED! I don't do pics, any pics!!!!!

With that said, I am in fact a friendly, well-rounded, straight-up, no drama, classy, bi-sexual fem in her young forties. I can be shy and conservative at first. But if I feel comfortable getting to know you, the defences slowly come down. I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm very happy on my own, doing my own thing. However, first impressions and looks are important to me. I take pride in my appearance therefore, am only interested in people of the same calibre. I know that may sound snobbish and I guess I am but, I know what I like and what I don't like.

I enjoy a variety of activities from wine and dine (high teas, dinner on a yacht, charity functions) to theatre/ballet, caberet, to thrill seeking adventures (bungy, jetboating, paragliding, half marathons, skiing, horsetrekking, speedway) to strolling the markets in the weekends to chilling out with a good movie!

So, if my profile has spiked your interest, message me for an intelligent conversation.  Oh.... as I'm not a full member yet, I may not be able to reply. And given I'm new to this site, I'm finding my way around so don't be pushy or judgy if my replies are delayed!

My Ideal Person..I'm a woman who knows exactly what she wants and what she likes and there will be no variations. So if you don't fit into the below criteria, do not bother sending a message.

MALES/FEMALES: Age between 28-50!!! If you're NOT between this age group....DO NOT message me!!!!

MALES/FEMALES: Whose not pushy or insists on pics..... I DON'T DO PICS and I DON'T WANT YOURS!

MALES: Definitely has to be Caucasian! Not into Blacks, Indians, Asian or Pacific Island including Maori! I am not racist, I just prefer vanilla!
FEMALES: I will consider all cultures

MALES: Tall is good! Tall with a great pair of deltoids and muscular back make me purrrr. NO fat beer belly!
FEMALES: any height with a great tight, perky butt. No Kim Kadashian butts! NO fat muffins!

MALES: has to have hair - I don't do bald heads and/or beards/goatees....yuk! Hygiene is paramount! 

MALES/FEMALES: Has to be fit with a great bod - I loath couch potatoes! And although, I don't have a six-pack, surf-board myself, I like to keep myself fit!

MALES/FEMALES: Fashion conscientious. A person who has fantastic dress sense grabs my attention immediately.