--update-- 

I find this place infuriatingly difficult to click in at times.  

Having said that, the chatroom here was the easiest place to figure out what buses to catch while visiting Auckland to get to where I needed to be (way easier than any of the actual bus websites or phone apps)... so maybe thats it.  And I've had one incredible, unforgettable and life-changing experience here as well.  So maybe it's worth staying... but I just don't feel like I fit any more.  Is it just me?

Rant over, carry on 

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--The old bit, slightly updated - which is still true and relevant --

What do I want?  Good question.  Fun, friends, a relationship (of sorts), something special, nothing at all, sex, adventure, exploration...  Realistically I want someone to explore the areas of life that I haven't yet.  I'd love to meet a genuinely bi curious or bisexual female that I can click with and experiment / enjoy life for a while.  I'm not really looking for a wham-bam-thankyou-ma'm because I've been there, done that and its often less satisfying than staying home with a box of tissues and some good porn - although I have experienced some incredible exceptions to that so I will always consider it.  

Beyond being a a female (or couple... or more) I'm not putting any boundaries on what I might actually respond to because everything is relative to the time, the situation and the chemistry.  Life is short, have fun.

If you like kissing then it would be advantageous (if not downright mandatory) if you were a non-smoker...  And if you don't like to kiss then we might not have that great a time... but who knows...

I'm open to ideas and experiences - what do you suggest?