Your profile says you are located in Taupo. Distance would be an issue for them I imagine. I believe they would like someone more local, but thanks anyway. So far you are the only black guy who has responded. Had one maori guy but that's not what they want.

The couple I am fortunate to play with have expressed an interest in having a bbc experience for the wife. Are there any local hung black guys in Hawkes Bay who are interested in meeting a mature couple for some sexy fun.

They are looking for guys with an African decent rather than NZ.

Anybody tried using a cock sleeve. Do you girls like them? Any advice on size, texture etc

Has anyone been or a member of the manawatu nudist park? Thats the one near himitangi beack. any reviews???

Is Levin a swinging desert or a hedonistic oasis. Contractor going to be in town soon and hopes that his evenings will not be takeaway meals in front of small TV and no WiFi.

Quote by Astrid_
We think that this scene, lifestyle, marriage choice is quite misunderstood by a lot of people. For those who live this scene it is about a different way of interacting with your long term partner, generally married but not always. Some couples come from the swing scene some ,like us ,from the fetish scene. It's a basic biological fact that as men get older there sexual prowess deminishes where as for women it can stay on a reasonable peak well into there old age. Also as you spend many years together hopefully that loving bond becomes deeper and more intense. However there are only so many ways you can have sexual games and after probably 10 years the straight sex life can start to become a little staid. So I think for us and couples like us we eventually decide to run our marriage in a different way that takes these points into consideration. A lot of people, particularly men, cannot fathom how these marriages can function. The truth Is for those who are wiread in this way they are very successful. Cuckold couples seldom end up in the divorse courts, we don't end up hating each other fighting over the kids or basically getting bored to death with one another. Now don't get me wrong, this scene does not mend broken marriages, in fact if your marriage has cracks in it stay well clear of this scene. We have now rejigged our marriage so that this is a very intrinsically important part of the dynamic. Personally we would like to see more couples talking to each other about this marriage choice, but it does seem to be very much the guilty little secret. Perhaps this forum could give more room for our scene. Regards A&j

 Excellent post. It reflects my idea of what this lifestyle is about. I think the warning about having a strong marriage before thinking about this is very good advice.  

I am currently working away from home and would love to meet up with any local swinging couples or females in the Hastings area of Hawkes Bay. I will be having a drink at the Irish pub in Havelock North tomorrow evening (Thursday 27th) if anyone want to meet for a social chat. It would certainly brighten up my boring evenings.

would any local couples or females like to keep a tradie company at the rose and crown  in palmy tonight. Going out to get a feed and a pint but will be on my own. might be nice to meet some locals.