We are a close, highly connected couple who are ready to take the next step into wife-sharing. This has been 12 years in the making, and now that she’s ready, I want to ensure her first experience is nothing short of perfect. If you think you have what it takes to be that man, read on.

Please note that we have specific requirements for this delicate situation: If you're willing to meet those, please do apply :) Pics will come at a time of our choosing, and once I have screened out those who won't respect our requirements to make her comfortable enough for this to happen.

I am a 44yo Euro male, straight, who has a very close and deep relationship with my beautiful wife. I love to dominate her, but I am also incredibly turned on by the idea of another man making her toes curl, and making her moan.

She is a 45yo Japanese lady, who has warmed to the idea of including another man, and the idea now makes her dripping wet.

So we are initially going to start by interviewing. This will be her first experience, so we want it to be absolutely perfect.

So that means we have some very specific requirements:
We are looking for a man with:

• Experience doing this. Specifically, you should have experience with newbies to the lifestyle, particularly newbie women.

• You should understand this isn't a typical 'cuckold' experience. I do not get turned on by humiliation, and she won't like that, either.

• You need to be sensitive, respectful, and follow her arousal signs to give her the greatest experience possible, but you must also know when to be Alpha ;)

• Charisma - You should be a quality guy who knows how to relax a woman, and make her feel safe, desired and that she can stop at any time.

• Charisma 2 - You should be experienced in expressing said charisma in such a way that makes women wet their panties.

• You and I will converse and we will decide on a game-plan, not too scripted, it should be natural, but you need to know the specifics of her preferences etc.

• You should be Euro or Asian, as is her preference.

• You should be in Auckland, or able to travel here to meet.

• She prefers a man with significant thickness, a prominent, well-defined head, and a length that allows her to experience deep penetration without discomfort. If you are beyond 9 inches, you must have full control of your depth to be considered.

• You should be clean and attractive. Before we meet, you must share a face pic (it's fine to do this on disappearing message on , and only once chosen).

• She isn't super-picky about body type, but sorry larger fellas, she's not into overweight guys. If you have a little extra around the middle, please apply.

• References on this site are ideal, if you have played with others and they have written about you, you will rise on the list.

If you end up meeting us, here is what I want for her (clues for your initial message):

I want her to feel completely safe and warm towards you.I want you to (with me) warm her up at her pace, to turn her on slowly via sensual touching until she is at desperation level. Once at this point, she will be completely ready to engage, and flowing with desire. When you begin, you should begin slowly, and penetrate her deeper in stages, until your depth is making her gasp. I want to see you slowly increase the energy and tension until she is above the heavens in ecstasy. The rest should be spontaneous, besides our agreed rules and limits.

So here's the process for screening the hundreds of messages I will get:

1) Write me a message detailing your experience and how you might go about helping me introduce my wife to this experience. She won't be reading this as yet.

2) Send a body pic and an erect cock pic with enough detail to show your true size and scale (just showing it with a side shot of your body is perfect)

3) I will gather many different 'applications', and then review and the ones I like, I will contact to create a shortlist. If I don't reply to you, please don't be offended; it just means I don't think the particular chemistry is there.

4) The candidates and I will chat and get to know each other a little.

5) If you're the right type of guy, she will then review your pics (so make them attractive, and not in a stereotypical way - include a nice shirtless shot, and maybe something less.... naked). The one's she likes will spur more conversation between me and you.

6) Once she and I have decided on who to talk to, we will chat a little with you on a text chat, where she will take part.

7) We may require a phone conversation or at some stage (or an ice-breaker meeting, if she is comfortable)

8) We meet so she can lose her virginity a second time.

When you message me, I don’t want a generic ‘Hey, I’m interested.’ If you think you are the right man, tell me what makes you stand out. What is your approach when introducing a woman to her first experience? What would you do to make her feel at ease? Show me that you understand not just the physical, but the mental and emotional aspects of attraction.

We are taking our time because her first experience will be the foundation for everything that follows. If this is the kind of experience you’re looking for—where every moment is carefully curated for ultimate satisfaction—then we are interested in hearing from you. If you’re just looking for a quick encounter, move on.