New to the site, joined some time ago and did nothing about it until now.

Usual suspects, 2 kids, divorced and a busy job leaving little time to cultivate a meaningful relationship

I'm here because I'm looking for a friend with benefits, I'm naughty and sensual but not into sex parties or anything too kinky.

Have tried the dating scene and I really don't have the time for relationship, blended families and the expectations that come with it, tired of the awkward questions, the set up dates with people you wouldnt date in your wildest dreams (what were they thinking?!?) and the expectations that come with it.

Always up for a wine and a good laugh.

Relatively fit, run and swim in the summer months and hibernate over the cold months.

A regular friend with benefits is what I'm really after.

One night stands, not really unless it's an offer I cant refuse

Not into clingy types which shouldn't be a problem here.