The girl of a committed couple, this is something my partner and I have discussed, and on behalf of the two of us I am off to do some research! The thought of swinging is a turn on for the both of us, and having been together for over three years, we are looking at different things to spice up a secure and satisfying sex life.

Our main concerns would be safe sex and discretion. A situation which would cater for these things would be the first step in taking baby steps into this lifestyle.