Basic stuff, first up:

• I have a partner.

  She knows about this profile, and is also on this site - anything in person will be cleared with her prior, no secrets

• Safe consensual sex means condoms, regardless of screening status or how recently screened

• Happy to do whatever online, but in person frolicking only after a coffee (or other drink) at a cafe. A vaguely public meeting to check we're all on the same page, and continue to be keen.

Beyond that, aside from the details in the profile, I'm a fairly easy going guy, open to experimenting and looking to meet some new people.

Still writing this profile, as they're a pain to create, but happy to chat and see what happens.

As noted above, my partner is online, and I've seen the way a bunch of guys behave - if you're looking for someone who claims to have a 'huge cock' or promises "the best you've ever had", that's not me.

I'm interested in making some kind of actual connection, so we'll need to have a conversation that flows, and get to know at least something about each other. Whether that's favourite colours or your preferred place and style of kissing.