I'm a smart fit clean guy looking to experiment with an MMF with my partner of six years, she's warming to the idea and thinks nothing off's the table in time and we often fantasize about it so I am quietly trying to figure out how to lay the ground work but not quite there yet.

We have a great relationship, a lot of fun and always challenging ourselves, we are self employed professional people and travel lots . We are not big people physically , used to being around people that can hold a good conversation, she is 38 years old, loves dressing up in hot gear and loves sex, she has a very open mind but I am mindful not to go overboard so all of this will be a work in progress over time and there's no hurry. We are not into anything dubious nor dubious surroundings at all.

Given I'm that new to this and still working on the idea anyone or couple that can share advice or want to chat or write please don't hesitate, and although I/we are not at the photo stage ,if it 's a stumbling block to you considering communicating I can easily supply these if I'm assured I'm dealing with good people and they are kept private so don't let that stop you, but slowly and discretion is the word.

In the interim I would like to stick my to in the water be experiencing a MMF so if you need a photo man or a watcher while you do your thing I'd also give that a go to see how comfortable I'd be with the process and will honour without question any rule put in place for sure for your own peace of mind.

Also I am a bit nervous I could be playing with fire here or fixing something that isn't broken but it does intrigue me and whilst I haven't listed everything under activities take it as I have a pretty open mind and will try anything once.