2019 update: I have moved to Australia and been here for the last 18 months, happily in a relationship and just on here to reconnect with old friends

Swinging I came into in 2011, into a very nice way, made good friends with a woman through mutual friends and after meeting at numerous social events together, she sent me a text and invited me for a drink out with her and her hubby, he cooked us dinner, we drank, we chatted, innocent drinking games turned into truth or dare, which turned into dares, which turned into sexual dares, which turned into a full on threesome all night long.

Since then I have met some incredible people, made some life changing friends, had mind boggling experiences and learned a few lessons.

So here I am.

I have playmates in all sorts of situations and enjoy building a lasting friendship with them and continuing on that friendship even after we stop having sex for whatever reason.

Overall when I do find a boyfriend suitable to my needs obviously swinging will be one of them, though being young I will probably need to teach him a lot, which sounds like a great deal of fun for me. This is not a great priority right now, my main focus is my career, and building on that, relationship/boyfriends can wait. Playmates can line up at the bedroom door though.

What I look for in potential playmates of both gender are respect, intelligence, humour, wit, cleanliness and of course that little spark that makes me wanna take your pants off.

I have professional careers and respect for those are important, along with being discreet, I keep my sex life to myself.

I prefer to stick to the bracket of under 50 years old, as my only bad experiences so far have been with men over that age, but exceptions can be made to any rule, if it is worth it..

Currently I have a strong hankering for anal play, I expect it is a phase and will stop craving it soon, for now, that is usually a preference, but not any riff-raff is allowed up there, so again, you must fit my needs and my somewhat difficult to please criteria, but obviously I feel it is worth it, but I am humble..

I have experience as a sub for the correct and suitable Dom, I am looking to submit to someone, I have also dabbled in playing as Domme, and always looking to enhance those skills.

So message me or talk to me in the chat, but try to stand out from the crowd of "idiot horny people" that send me message after message of nothing.

Good Luck, Jasper xx