we are a couple she is 58 and straight and im 62 and bi curious ,we dont like pressure and wont pressure anyone else ,we do like clean ..discreet ... ...voyeurism ...oral ..no pain ...can be enticed to try other ....spa,s ...massage ..could be soft swingers ..hoping to look,like in a lolly shop and maybe buy cheers oh and we are fit and presentable she is shyer than me .just needs time think that covers it