looking for a little late night fun am a mother so free time is hard to come by, but when I have it I want to make good use of it..

I don't want to be any part of cheating (your partner must know about your account and intentions) and no Indians or Asians thanks!  

Am looking for something discreet and regular, must be respectful but someone who can tease me out of my shell and give me a bit more confidence.. either a single male or single les/bi female, les/bi couple  no bi-curious please, I don't want to be an experiment :) :)