We're a professional married couple with little kids so time is at a premium. We've been members of the site for a long time, but we're only just getting around to dipping our toes into this lifestyle. We're taking things really slowly as we're at slightly different comfort levels. What we're really looking for initially is to find a couple to meet up with, for drinks or dinner, and just see if we feel a spark to take things any further.

We're mainly looking for hetero connections - she's recently realised she's bi, but has a very specific soft butch type and (probably) isn't currently keen to explore outside of that specific attraction. What we're hoping to find is a really smart, kind, professional, interesting couple that we enjoy hanging out with, that's also open to exploring occasionally (for both of us, attraction starts with personality). We're very happily married and only looking to meet people together. We're not looking for singles, as we're aiming to enhance our connection rather than undermine it.