Mrs L doesn't want to play anymore,she has lost her libido and doesn't seem that interested in finding it again. we used to have a great sex life involving swapping, sharing, girl on girl etc . So Mr L is now playing alone  without her knowledge. discretion is a must and will be given and many people know I'm bi and I would prefer to keep it that way. my ideal person would be someone else that is playing on the side or a bi couple that doesn't have an issue with me being unfaithful.