I agree that alot of people just get off on the fantasy and the feeling of being 'naughty' but even so, that is no excuse for not replying to an e-mail or a message. After all, even messaging can be quite fun, even though I have not received a single one yet (only registered a few days ago tho!!). As for the fake photos it does make you laugh, why would I need a photo of Brad Pitt??? I look like him anyway ha ha