We are a married couple in mid 40's and think of ourselves as easy going, sociable and generally normal. We are interested in connecting with other couples for fun times in a group or party situation. We've done this a wee bit in the past and have found groups or parties can be lots of fun with the right folk. Maybe we meet as a group at a pub, see how we go, have a few and go to a hotel, or if someone has a suitable party venue then that's good too. We are very keen on being 100% discreet and just want to connect with people of similar age and stage. We have kids and are mindful of needing to be small-town discreet. We could also travel to hook up with the right folk from Marlborough or Wellington.