Heya lovleys, us and another couple are coming up to Auckland to hit CCK on the 17th and 18th. Just thought it would be nice to know a few people who might be there at the same time. Looking forward to doing all the naughty things xx

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I am surprised at how often this seems to happen.... Why waste their time and yours by engaging and not showing up? 


Sometimes there are legitimate reasons and it's unavoidable.  I have had to cancel a couple of times... after giving appropriate notice I couldn't make it.... But it's kinda rude and a last resort..
... there seems to be little point in being here if you dont actually plan to meet people... ? 

 I think lots of people like the *idea* of swinging but when it comes down to the nitty gritty reality of being comfortable enough with yourself and your realtionship to share something that you have been told all your life should be jealously guarded....people just wimp out.