I'm mid 50's, well-groomed, easy going and attractive. I’m seeking couples, females and femme playmates for fun times. I would also be interested in developing enough of a dynamic with the right single woman where we could develop some sort of cuckold or stag/vixen dynamic.

First and foremost I will value you as a person and not a sex object. This applies whether we meet for a NSA one-off or develop a longer term connection. I'm here for fun and don't care about your politics, race, religion etc.

As you can see from my photos, I love my femme side. I aim to look feminine and classy whenever I'm dressed up. I'm confident going out in public and have been going to fetlife events, drag shows, bars etc for over 10 years.

I’m open to many different play combinations from standard straight sex to pretty kinky. Here are a few ideas (my role in bold): FM, Ft, Fm, MFM, MmF, MtF, MFm, TFm, FmF, FtF, TT plus all sorts of more-some variations. Parties would be good too ❤️

I have a small collection of good quality toys: flogger, collar, cuffs, strap, slapper, strap-on harness, chastity cages etc.

My work is quite flexible and I can travel during the week with some notice. I've previously had play partners in the Waikato, Bay of Plenty and Taranaki.

You don’t have to be drop dead gorgeous but being well kept and well-groomed is important. Age open but probably over 35 is better. Safe sex and femmes should be feminine and smooth and be confident going out.

I'm Rouby in the fet/kink world, if you're a couple, female or femme and want an easy way to get in touch. I'm happy to meet for a coffee or drink. Discretion is guaranteed. Its all about consent and there is no obligation either way 😘